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Profession Prima Ballerina
Do you want children? Undecided/Open
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About Me
IF I cared, I'd draw you a map of your ass with an X marking the spot where your head is buried.
The REASON she became so clingy paranoid is because deep deep down she knew you didn't care about her, you were just using her for emotional masturbation. BUT you weren't actually emotionally involved in her so you didn't care about her feelings so you fought to add drama to the relationship.
- Saw this little diddy in the forums.
Next time you accuse your girl or guy of being smothering I think you should "think" about what you were doing to make her or him react like this.
The sexiest parts of my body? My brain, my spine, and my guts
Sometimes you have to learn how to open your mouth for more than just giving head
Its easy to find someone you are attracted too- Its really hard to find someone
who loves you for all that you are.
Il y a une différence importante entre parler à tromper, et être silencieux être impénétrable (There is a wide difference between speaking to deceive, and being silent to be impenetrable.) - Voltaire
“I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and sometimes hard to handle; but if you can’t handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at by best. ”-Marilyn Monroe
"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they’re right. you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”-Marilyn Monroe
GOOD MEN ARE RARE. Proverbs 31:10
LIVE YOUR LIFE IN SUCH A WAY THAT WHEN YOUR FEET HIT THE FLOOR IN THE MORNING SATAN
SHUDDERS AND SAYS " S H I T SHE'S AWAKE!"
You will never lose the love of your life… if you do that’s not what they were.
If one person doesn't love you, someone else will.
( I nicked this off of another profile because I like it)
Rejection - just lifes way of telling you they are not the one
for you.
Honor - is the evaluation of a person's trustworthiness based on that individual's espousals and actions. Honor is deemed exactly what determines a person's character: whether the person reflects honesty, respect, integrity, or fairness
Strength - The ability to maintain a moral or intellectual position firmly.
Loyalty - Faithfulness or devotion to a person, a cause, obligations, or duties
Integrity - Integrity is consistency of actions, values, methods, measures and principles.
character -Moral or ethical strength.
A LITTLE ABOUT ME: Im just a funny girl- dont take this too seriously-
- Obsessive, Compulsive, neurotic, manic and paranoid but basically normal.
-Likes the color green and food.
-I tend to lie, cheat, tell stories about myself that are not true, have no real relationship with family members and have no friends only acquaintances.
-I wear my emotions but cant talk about them because I enjoy holding everything
in and getting more emotionally disturbed.
-I like to lead people on until I decide if its going anywhere and that usually
happens within four months of meeting you.
-I disapear because I cant face you or tell you the truth so if you dont
hear from me your best bet is to move on for at least the next two months
because I will change my mind and get back in touch with you to tell you my life is nothing without you.
- I will always be looking for someone who "gets" me even though
you already do - someone who I can talk current events, medicine and anything
I have basically stopped talking to you about.
-I will persue someone the EXACT way I have persued you. Sneaking your favorite movie
to share so Mr. New can relate to my manipulative feelings and I can cast my spell as
I have done with you. Striking up a conversation and letting them THINK we have so
much in common and have a sacred bond together.
- I am a great game player and like to cause drama to the point of making
you physically ill. I have been known to give people suicidal thoughts to
the point of seeking pyschiatric care.
- my word is crap. I will tell you one thing and do another.
- I have a huge ego and have been known on occasion to be narcissistic,
have sociopathic tendencies and am slightly bipolar.
- I am a functioning alcoholic and an elitist.
The path to solid, supportive, healthy relationships, self respect and a quality
life starts with the PAINFUL DECISION to do the RIGHT THING.
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Sin of self-love possesseth all mine eye
And all my soul and all my every part;
And for this sin there is no remedy,
It is so grounded inward in my heart.
Methinks no face so gracious is as mine,
No shape so true, no truth of such account;
And for myself mine own worth do define,
As I all other in all worths surmount.
But when my glass shows me myself indeed,
Beated and chopp'd with tann'd antiquity,
Mine own self-love quite contrary I read;
Self so self-loving were iniquity.
'Tis thee, myself, that for myself I praise,
Painting my age with beauty of thy days.
(Sonnet 62, William Shakespeare
**** THANKS FOR VISITING VIVIETOWN*****
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Only 2 defining forces have ever offered to die for you....Jesus Christ and the American Soldier.
One died for your soul, the other for your freedom.
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Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
by the Divine Power of God -
cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.
Amen
Please keep all the Men and Women who serve in your thoughts and prayers.
kisses!!!
A brave man dies but once-A coward dies a thousand times.
Heed the warning that Cassandra gave to Troy's King Priam: "Fear the Greeks
even when they bring gifts."
First Date
'Here's the deal, sweetie. For several months or so, I'm going to pretend to be everything you ever wanted. I'll shower you with attention, affection and all manner of stuff to make you feel special. Then, once I know you're depending on me as your significant other, and have made a commitment, I'm going to quit pretending and be who I really am. I'm going to start treating you really badly, I'll say insensitive things, I'll lie, I'll cheat, I'll be really cruel, possibly humiliate you in public. Your job will be to figure out what happened and do everything in your power to restore the relationship to what it was, until you either die, try to kill yourself, or collapse and get sent to hospital, which will be pretty funny because there's no chance whatsoever I'll ever pretend to be that 'nice guy' again – and by the way, it WAS a pretence. So what do you say, sweetie? Do we have a deal? Several years of hell in exchange for a few months of fantasy?'
SMELLS LIKE JEAN NATE` AND DISAPOINTMENT
Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.
The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before.
If its in your heart, it should come out of your mouth
Concerning Narcissism- I find this quote hysterical -
"Sometimes I think that the worst torture one could devise for these freaks would be to lock them in a room all alone for about three days. After about an hour, they would probably have their socks on their hands like puppets, just to have someone to lie to."
The Devaluation Funhouse : )
So, you still hanging on to that Narcissist? Good for you! I know, he‘s beaten your soul out of recognition and you don‘t know who you are anymore, but hang in there, things might turn around someday!
The mind of the narcissist is wildly chaotic, fraught with conflicts and about as predictable as the bullets in Russian Roulette.
Your relationship didn't end because of anything that happened. It ended because of who and what your partner is." You can't figure out why your partner seems angry at you. He's the one who cheated. He's the one who lied. He's the one who left you sitting at the airport for six hours. Why are these totally selfish self-involved people angry at you? Most likely you have touched a nerve that your partner didn't want touched.
Trying to get explanations from narcissists can be an incredibly frustrating endeavour. Even in their break-ups, narcissists tend to be unwilling to give any sense of closure. They are typically unwilling or unable to explain what happened because they don’t understand it, either. They also don’t understand your discomfort in not having any real answers, nor do they want to.
"One thing I do have to remind myself of all the time is this. They are always looking for who they are in someone else."
 | Viv, what a great friendship we've established, through thick and thin and very supportive of each other. You've always been there for me and you have no idea how special you are. You are so real. You thank the moon, stars and the sun...I thank all planets that we've found each other. Besides that, I love to read YOU in the forums, and many with me. I just wish we lived a bit closer, but our reunion will happen one day. Till then I'll embrace the laughter, tears, sharing and uplifting words! You'll make it! Send you lots of love, happiness and sunshine! |
 | Vivian has one of those sultry exteriors that belies her
inner wisdom.
Her soulful eyes and pouty lips exude femininity, yet she can weave
a tapestry of POF acceptable asides around a razor sharp
observation.
She reminds me of one of those film noir goddesses cracking wise
while blowing smoke rings in the Packard Caribbean convertible.
Have a c0cktail for the road, baby and don't be stingy! |
 | What can I say about this woman? We have nattered back and forth on email and not in the forums, although I do follow her comments there. Curly - only the strong survive, and you will do more than just survive, you will thrive! When the right one is there, you'll know it! And so will the rest of us. Keep cutting straight thru the bull crap and dishing the advice. You'll do fine! |
 | This exceptionally, beautiful, intelligent LADY, is a living goddeeeeeeeeess. Are all you American men insane, or just gay !!!!! A Goddess, should be worshipped... Personally, I have my own alter for her..
She is a beautiful person and deserves only the very, very best. I love you babe, (you know, the way, other's, love Jesus)...xxxx Mick.
PS. All you guys who pay attention to that David DeAngelo s**t, and think treating women bad is a good way of getting a date, are crazy, I read lots of your forums, and the impression I get, it obviously doesn't work. |
 | what? am I at an awards dinner? a testimonial? uh...what I really like about curlygrl is that she actually wrote back to me! seems like an intelligent human based on the limited communication we've shared...and if we ever go out on a date I am ceratinly not going to tell anyone, let alone the world, how good or bad she is. ya gotta love a girl named Curly, right guys? nyuk nyuk
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 | That lady is a catch and a half. She's a former 80's rock chick, that should give you an idea. Rock on!! She can be sweet as candy or she can be spicy. The choice is yours gentlemen. Oh and that is exactly what she needs, a gentlemen. Other than that, enjoy the view and the sight of those kissable lips!!
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 | Curly and I have had our share of ups and downs on and off the forums, but I think we can both agree that we understand each other a lot better now. I have been an admirer of her forum posts for some time now, she says things that I wish I had the courage to say at times. Life maybe a little rough for you right now, but always stay true to your beliefs and be the person you really are on and off the forums. I am so glad that we have the chance to be friends, a friend is a person that watches your back and is there for you in times of crisis. I am that friend,and I am here for you always. You are a surviver Viv, hang in there girl! |
 | OH Girl, I feel like I have known you my lifetime. We will, won't we? Life hasn't been the same there since you have been in it!!..you are the Sister I never had. You are my Angel. The one that has always backed me up.., just shows up at that most convenient times. That smile, oh yeah, could light up a room and does!.. Your day is coming baby girl. I only hope to be close when that happens,.. Always your 'Zappa Girl'!! your Sistah & Friend! |
 | Been knowing her for almost 2 yearsd now. She is a respectful woman, who disengauges, and disconnetc from the social. to abide y her man...She is one of a kind... Loyalty is spelled with her, and honesty si to the fore, with her arau. I walk in the whitest of light, just being on her fav's; But I walk, because her man secures the ground on which I do so
God Bless You both, and thank you...
Scott. (Not a yankee, I prefer Appalachian American!!
LOL!
Keep in touch y'all...
White-Light.
Scott
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 | Lol, don't have a clue as to why she added me to her favorites...I'm honored! I do know I've read some of her posts in the forums and think she's a sweet, very cool lady. Huggggggggggs and Happy New Year! |
 | ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ Sweets . . . LOVE YA ATTITUDE . . . . RED LIPSTICK Lady . . . I'll marry ya but ya have to provide ya own B.O.B!!!! [LMFAO!!] ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ This lady is awesome . . . full of common-sense and damn right logical . . .with a twist of humor . . . I am glad that she has decided to stay on for the forums . . . for she has such a way of putting things into perspective . . . the simplicity of her logic is very refreshing . . . her wisdom would have been greatly lost had she left the forms . . . .ooooooooh MOTHER of god . . . we (available ladies) damn well know that we need someone to set us straight (aka . . . a good kick in the horse's behind . . .hehehehe) . . . when our eyes get cross-eyed with emotions . . .Keep up the great job . . . Ya have my vote for . . . . . “The great mojo” award!!! . . . . xoxoxoxoxo ~Myth~ |
 | when i first meet vivian she had so much anger in side her, so i deside to write to her and talk to her and figured i would probably piss her off whith what i had to say. but instead she liked what i had to say. she is one of a kind thats for sure. and i love this girl. shes my best friend on line and dont want to hear any body putting her down. she says whats on her mind and if you dont like it then you shouldnt of asked her for advice. or be a ass to her. she can can take care of her self. she madly in love with vinsint and our prayers is with him and wish him a safe return to her. she gave me some great advise on a problem i was haveing with this girl i have some great feelings towards and becouse of her i think its going to work out. at least i hope it does. shes a very careing and loveing lady. thats right i said lady and she is . viv im proud to have you as my friend and always will chairesh your friend ship as long as i live . please dont change for anybody. we love you for the way you are. hope everyone can find a friend thats always there for them no matter the situation. viv thank you for deing my friend and if you ever need anything just ask im here for you always. |
 | Vivian has all the wonderful qualities that comprise a truly great friend. She's genuine, funny, honest, compassionate, loyal, and trustworthy. I am very lucky and honored to have her as my friend for life! |
 | 'Curly' is a fellow Forum -Poster, (and a fellow Italian!) whom i admire, even though the approach may be a bit different, the steadfastness and passion is the same. she'd understandthankyou curlygrl... blondago56 / M. *?!? i dont know how she is 'to date' but im sure we'd have fun? (dang computer and minimum word requirements) |
 | Wow...Vivian is absolutely one amazing lady. She has wit, compassion, and intellect that can really blow your mind. A one of a kind that I'm honoured to call my friend. If I had a chance to travel and meet this amazing woman, I would for the first time in my life have a female friend that I could actually have things in common with. Viv, you are definitely a sister and confidante that I've never had...You go girl!!! Adore you to pieces...HUGS to you! |
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