What? You say Seahorses aren't cuddly? How do you know, have you ever cuddled with one??????

First of all.. life is too short. I say...let's make it longer..lol!!!! I am passionate and no baggage or drama. Forthright and honest, not a coward or player and will be a straight shooter with you. But.. I am kind, considerate and not rude just because I am from NYC. It is a red flag if we can never talk on the phone or can never meet because you are traveling 10 out of 9 days or have 8 terminal illnesses at the same time making it impossible for you to see me . As a native New Yorker , I tell it like it is in a nice way. You will find me totally single at present- you be too. Please don't come to me with a broken relationship and see if I would be a better trade in or experiment with me to see if you want to be dating others. I Love ATTENTION and public affection as well as private AFFECTION, adventure and men who can think out of the box. I am told I am attractive with a great sense of humor and sexy with brains...some of this stuff must be true, no?? Those who like to IGNORE EMAILS and NOT RETURN PHONECALLS or MAKE ANY THEMSELVES while trying to get to know me need not apply...or try to do these things as they make me very happy!!!Let me know if you found a brighter colored fish and go away. Just be honest, don't make up elaborate lies. For example, you were eaten by a shark and are writing me a goodbye email from inside his belly 3 weeks later because that is when he ate a computer. Those who do the the things I love ( snuggling, massages, walks holding hands, great new restaurants we find, passionate kisses, interesting music and films etc.etc.) will have great fun with me.....I love to play Scrabble on line and in person and warn you I am very good at it..If this intrigues you, the line forms to the right....;). If you love country music, motorcycles and nascar and want a gal to go bowling with in short shorts with long blonde hair..I won't be for you. I am a SWF and seek a SWM. Have a picture or don't write- I like to see with whom I am speaking..it is only fair. no response if there is no photo. Please no fake or deceptive profiles and photos..you know who you are!!

I am very diverse and love everything from rock, to rock lobster to Rachmaninoff. I revel in witty repartee and clever banter. Fun sarcasm and dry wit is best. Exercise and a healthy lifestyle are for me - hope you feel that way too..:) . I am 5 ft 5, presently weigh 130 pounds, 38D-28-38 and have other photos I can share with you..these are recent , some not even taken yet. They are not the best. Main photo is most current taken 6/9/08. I am a sales manager/ trainer. I love day trips like to Charlotte or Savannah. I have a nice big home and drive a new red Chrysler 300 for those that like that sort of thing. Seek a man with a great sense of humor, intelli-gent, non-judgemental, attractive, tall and would love to run my long nails through his hair.( so- would be nice if he had some) I am not Christian though I date all denominations and have no prejudices. I hope you feel the same way. We are all G-ds children.

Yearning for a handsome, romantic, passionate fun loving guy with smarts who is a clever wit ( as opposed to a nit wit). Be at least 40ish please as I am 48, but don't look a day over 47. Pictures are a true representation of what I look like!!!...But I will take others for you wink wink!! ( no X-rated only R rated)

I want someone with whom I can share spirited debate, well rounded conversation, do new and exciting things, as well as old exciting things . Sensual and funloving. I am playful and lighthearted, positive, generous and my friends and mother think I am easy to love..lol. I adore learning about new music and music is my life . I want someone to hold hands with over dinner ( not while we are eating though), listening to favorite music or concerts. I love classic rock , Progressive alternative rock, jazz, classical music ( especially piano) and new music. Love watching comedies like Frazier, Larry David Show and Family Guy cartoon. ..and just hanging around with someone who will make me laugh (intentionally) and give me goosebumps. Can you do that?? Oh..and whose eyes I want to stare into for hours on end. (well..maybe for 3 minutes- I need to blink) .

I am a hopeless romantic and very monogamo-us. That means I will date only one person and give the relationship a sincere effort unless they do something that makes me decide it is time for another friendship. Is this you?? Oh..and I don't sleep around..one person at a time when the time is right. "Dating" Friends first for a while always anyway. Love the Discovery Channel, History Channel, Classic movies in B&W ,The Science channel and Forensic Files...I am a CNN news junkie and love current events. I am not the American Idol type. I am real- you be too...puhleeeze!!!

If you want to take me shopping..I'll go...!! I noticed everyone likes to go for coffee these days. I am floating away already from so much coffee, but if you insist-I do love Starbucks. Love a quiet place , lunch, a drink, appetizers where we can really ask questions, find out about one another, and if there is chemistry stare at one another and drool without too many people watching!!

I love museums, exhibits, theatre, rock concerts,classical music..the symphony ,antique stores, picnics in a nice park, hiking, outdoor actvities, hanging out indoors and will try what you like. Want to take me?? I realize this is a risk- I could be 85 years old with no teeth and these could be pics of my grandaughter so..coffee it is. Make mine a venti ex large specialty kind- and take out a loan so you can afford it. Oh......and bring 2 index cards , one that says "Chemistry" and one that says "No chemistry" so I know where I stand....:)