If you are a generally miserable and unhappy person, PLEASE do not contact me and take your frustrations out on me. Find yourself a nice hobby to express that pent-up anger instead of insulting me. I have too much class to argue with you over ridiculous points. Perhaps even consider looking for someone that you'll be compatible with! At any rate, POF on a whole has been a positive experience. Guys like this seem to be in the minority. Thank God!

I don't have time for BOYS...so, know what you want BEFORE you contact me! Someone had the gall to tell me that I "come with alot of BS." Actually, if you READ my profile, it's intended to let you know that I don't TOLERATE IT! I guess some people have no reading comprehension.

First things first...if you don't like FAT chicks, most likely you aren't going to like me even though I have alot of other great qualities...so, MOVE ALONG! Don't try to argue with me and tell me that I'm not. Furthermore, I hate to disappoint you, but I am NEITHER bitter nor desperate! And yes, I am "picky" as far as who I spend my time with. If that bothers you, that's too bad. However, if you feel, like I do, that "sexiness" comes from self-confidence and is not a dress size/weight, I would love to hear from you. I am not your typical 40-something. I do not look NOR act my age. I generally have more in common with younger men...ie. interests, music, etc. While I may be considered "high maintenance" by some, I am equally at home in jeans as I am all dressed up for a night out on the town. I don't have problems describing myself and I think that the excerpts from another profile below sum me up pretty well as a person...the "good, bad, and the ugly!" I don't get embarrassed or offended easily and I am a very open person, so feel free to ask me any questions that you may have. I love to laugh and appreciate someone that can laugh with me and also make me laugh as well. I can find humor in ANY situation. I thank everyone for taking the time to read my profile and I wish you all well in your pursuits.

If I had to describe myself, I would say that I am: Extremely extroverted, flirtatious, aggressive/assertive, intelligent, articulate, witty, creative, spontaneous, intense, passionate, loyal, honest, open-minded, strong-willed, compassionate, affectionate, generous, faithful, self-confident, and dominant. However, I can also be: stubborn, spoiled, possessive, self-centered, judgemental, moody, blunt/tactless, prideful, infuriating, argumentative, sarcastic, dramatic, and a bit of a "smartass." Other than the above, I can safely say that practically all children and animals love me...it' s just men that I am having difficulties with....*joke* Now, after reading the above you are still interested, please feel free to contact me. My love style is "hopeless romantic"...I agree with the romantic part, but I am always HOPEFUL!

Also, albeit flattering...I'm not interested in "hooking up" with you and your girlfriend or significant other. Ok, there is one exception I can think of...if you are Brad and Angelina (after the twins are born), look me up!

Statements such as, "U R Hot!" do not impress me in any way, shape, or form...neither do the vital statistics of your "family jewels." Impress me with your IQ, not your penis size!

PLEASE, if you are going to contact me, have at least one pic, preferably more. Be reasonable...I don't want to see pics of you from high school when you had a full head of hair or when you won the "Mr. Hot Stuff Contest" back in 1991. That being said, you should have your own NATURAL hair (unless you are really cute BALD!) and teeth in good repair. NO MODEL PICS...unless you ARE a model...: )

SMOKING is an absolute "deal breaker" as is being married or in any sort of committed relationship...whether you are committed or not. If you are currently attending AA or NA meetings (or should be), I'm not interested either.
I do not find mullets, NASCAR enthusiasts, or cowboy hats amusing. The only exception to the latter is if you live/work on a ranch, it's a "job requirement," or are a REAL cowboy...or if you can just "rock the hat!" LOL

Yes, I do think it's possible for men and women to be "just friends." Now, if I can just convince MOST men of this fact...: )

It's always nice when someone attempts to write something thought-provoking on their profile. I would rather see some sort of effort than none at all.
Sorry to say this, but it needs to be said. I am not trying to offend anyone; however, if you do not have command of the English language...ie. basic spelling, grammar, and punctuation or CANNOT put together complete thoughts or sentences, we WILL NOT get along and I will not waste MY time speaking to you. Of course, I also make an occasional spelling/grammatical error as well! *gasp* Also, if you are going to try to participate in an "intelligent" conversation or argue a point with me, please try to do your part to keep up and/or do your research in advance. Thanks!

I'm from Houston, but currently in New Orleans. I don't know how long I will be in the area, so I'm not looking for a serious or long-term relationship at this time. I'd just like to find someone to casually hang out with.

I'm not interested in married guys or guys that are "attached," whether you are unhappy and/or in an "open" relationship. That is of no consequence to me. I'm also not really interested in guys my age or older. There may be a RARE exception to this. I don't subscribe to the "good ole boy" mentality. Sorry if that offends anyone. I know what I like physically and otherwise and I'll post a "laundry list" of what I am looking for at a later time. If you want to know anything, just ask. For those of you that remember my previous profile, you remember that it was quite lengthy. I've found that sadly alot of men either don't read, can't read, or don't care! Even if someone is the TOTAL OPPOSITE of what I am seeking, they will still contact me anyway! I say, don't waste your time or mind. There's someone out there for everyone...or at least I hope there is. For those of you that keep contacting me. If I wasn't interested in your before, it's highly doubtful that I will be interested in you now. I suggest you look for someone who may be. In case you haven't noticed, I am a straight-forward/blunt kind of person. I don't mean to offend or hurt anyone, but I am not going to "sugarcoat" things. I just believe in "telling it like it is." I'm one of those people that requires mental stimulation as much as physical. They are both equally important to me. At some point, I would love to meet that elusive guy that holds all the qualities I admire, but until then, I am more than happy to make new and interesting friends. I'm attracted to men who are educated, well-read, well-traveled, or have had interesting life experiences. If you haven't bee

I've yet to be impressed by you N'awlins men. Surely there is one of you out there that can change my opinion! Might I suggest if you don't meet my requirements laid out within my profile, you not waste your time or mine by contacting me. I KNOW what I like and what I want!

I'm straightforward and don't tolerate BS...so, if that's your game, go play it elsewhere! Know what you want before you go after it. I don't care how lonely or "horny" you are. Don't waste either my time or yours.

You know, they have an area for interests on here...I think we need an area for disinterests/dislikes...I have the feeling that mine would be just as long as my list of interests!

What I do on a first date depends upon who the first date is with...it could range from looking for the nearest exit to "knocking boots"....LOL All joking aside, I am not looking for a "casual hookup"...granted, they do happen on occasion. If you're tall...6'2" and up, fit, intelligent, and funny...you've already got a "jump start" on the competition.

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