* Yes, I'm here to meet people, but please read what I'm looking for. It's only fair to both of us. If you're just looking for someone to hang out with when you have nothing else to do, or send endless e-mails, good luck in your search... but I'd rather pursue something meaningful with someone who will add to my life as well as I will her life.

Chemistry is key! Hopefully, I'll meet someone who's a kid at heart, but a family oriented and independent woman. I like to keep it simple in life. I am close to my family and friends, and I enjoy spending time with them whenever I can. I'd like to meet someone who is not afraid to laugh at herself once in a while, but knows how to be serious when it's time. I believe in living a clean lifestyle, I take care of myself and work hard at what I do. My job affords me the opportunity to meet people from all walks of life. Occasionally volunteering for various causes has become a part of who I am because it makes a difference in the lives of those less fortunate and it also puts things into perspective. I think being a genuinely good person is fine, but when two people challenge each other to be better, I think they share a lot more and interact on a higher level... that's what I'd like to find. Now for the million dollar question: Will I find it here?

Planning a few things for a first date is key... I would probably have reservations at a few places just so we can pick what suits us best. Comedy shows are always fun, and I believe laughter is a good icebreaker. Skating at Central Park or Roc Center during the holidays, maybe a museum or live music at a neighborhood spot. Any of those offer a very casual and comfortable atmosphere, and it's easy to get to know someone when they are comfortable with what they're doing.