There has to be one man out there who is positive, in shape, not a drunk, employed, not prejudiced, and SINGLE. I myself am employed, love to work out, eat right, spend time with friends & family laughing. I do not date more than one man at a time and would appreciate the same in return. If you like to date multiple women please don't expect me to be one of them.

My friends describe me as a loyal, honest, caring person with a great (if not sometimes strange) sense of humor. I enjoy camping, fishing, bbqing, sunsets, dining out, dining in, long car rides, movies out/in, suspense novels, the zoo, parks,the list goes on. I also enjoy cooking for others; for myself it is a neccessity, for others a pleasure. My happiest days are the ones spent with friends/family laughing until it hurts. I am looking for a long term relationship. If you are married please move on. I am looking for a man with integrity. I do not play games, lie or cheat, I never did understand the point. I do not drink, I do smoke and do not plan on quitting at this time. I have a large family that I am very close to even though we are located all across the country.

*I do love to give and recieve attention/affection. This is very important to me if you do not like PDA's please pass me by....


*Are you married? are you the jealous type? are you into playing games? do you want to be dominated? are you wanting just friends with benefits? are you hung up on an ex? are you here to just find a friend/email/chat? if you say yes to any of these few questions then pass me by...


*Are you serious about a relationship? are you romantic? are you single? are you faithful? are you employed? can you see your toes without bending/looking in the mirror? do you feel women are goddesses and should be treated as such? can you make me laugh until I cry and snort? do you have cingular?...if you say yes to any of these questions then feel free to message me.

I know that I may sound a bit negative but I have had some really strange encounters from this. I guess I am looking for the same as most everyone. Honesty, faithfullness and communication. I may have to die an old maid but that is what I am waiting for and I won't settle for less...Best of luck to all in your search for happiness....

*****Well I just had another "wonderful" experience from here. I'm still not giving up.********

First meet and greet over coffee/tea/or the lake (fishing, swimming,hikeing), if there is a connection we will decide from there. Really depends on the time of the year and shared interests of who I am dating....

Male
Age between 30 and 45
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not be married