" Love is giving someone the opportunity to break your heart and trusting them not "

"I'd like to have another relationship, but it needs to be the right one, for the right reasons, and I'm not in any great hurry."

I was born in Springfield Massachusetts and have spent most of my life in Portland Maine. I have brown hair and eyes and wear glasses usually and stand abouit 6 feet tall and weigh about 225 lbs. I am Italian with a little Polish in me for good measure...means I have intellegence but not a lot of common sense. I was married once for about 7 years divorced in 2006 and have two daughters aged 10 and 7 currently living with their mother in Westbrook Maine. My music is varied and diverse...I like classic rock, 80's rock, hip hop, rap and new age not so fond of country. I love sports especially baseball and football and cheer for teams from New England. I love to walk/hike..

I am looking for someone who will be my best friend. Someone who likes sports even if they do not like my teams..I want to find someone who can take long 3-5 miles walks with me for exercise or likes to throw the baseball or frisbee around..maybe likes to play tennis and can teach me to be a better player...someone who understands that all I want from her is what she freely and willingly gives of herself...and not under the pretense of obligation or expectation.. Someone who would be willing to help me accomplish and share with me some of my wierd dreams and share with me her own dreams..I want to find someone who wants a future that may include marraige and definately does include long term potential..I want to find someone who has a career ..and has ambition to further that career...and know that I would support her in those aspirations...someone who loves being at home but can still enjoy a night out..and relish returning home after that night on the town is over.





PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE NOT IN THE UNITED STATES

Well ..a baseball game or hockey game would be cool..A romantic meal at a nice restaurant would be wonderful..A quick road trip up to Helen and Anna Ruby Falls would be enjoyable..Bowling is fun..mini golf... lazer tag and go carts..anything that provides us a chance to talk and get to know each other...even if the match does not light for us...friendship is also a wonderful bonus for time spent together...so tell me what do you have to lose...