Here I am. I need to be as honest as possible and let the chips fall where they may. My divorce is not yet final. I've been separated over two years now. There have been many changes in my life, a new career after 27 years with the same company, moving back to my original home in the great northwest from an extended stay in central CA. My now 10 year-old son is with me half of the time.

I love music (both to listen to and to try to create). art in many forms, writing, cooking.

I have no anger issues, I believe in sharing, caring and communicative relationships. I value strong and independant women, I have no need for a needy or subservient partner. A relationship is about two equals choosing to share their lives, not two incomplete halves making one whole.

Thanks for "listening".

A first date? A safe location where we could meet and share some of who we are without pressure or an obligation to either of us. A cup of coffee or a glass of wine would be a great accent. If we have even a small initial connection we can go from there. One easy step at a time. Quality isn't built in a hurry.