1. You're just not that into me if you're not asking me out.
2. You're just not that into me if you're not calling me.
3. You're just not that into me if you're not dating me.
4. You're just not that into me if you're not having sex with me.
5. You're just not that into me if you're having sex with someone else.
6. You're just not that into me if you only want to see me when you're drunk.
7. You're just not that into me if you keep disappearing on me.
8. You're just not that into me if you're married or otherwise unavailable (mentally, emotionally, physically)
9. You're just not that into me if you're a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak.

Yes...fellas, I've read the book. I own a copy of the book. I want nothing less than for you to be THAT into me. So into me that nothing keeps you from calling me, spending time with me, touching me, pursuing me, respecting me, caring for me. I promise to do the same if I am THAT into you.

I am employed full time, and I have an apartment that I love. I enjoy music, movies, travel, shopping, and cooking. I rarely drink, and I have never smoked (never will). I am intelligent, driven to succeed, opinionated, and passionate. I believe physical attraction is important, but your body/face won't make me love you. Your heart, your brain, and your sense of humor will.

Simple. ;)

I think sitting in the dark in a movie theatre where you CAN'T talk and get to know one another is a GREAT idea! Unless it's the drive in...the only fun thing to do there is makeout.

I think activity is important on a first date. Mini golf, bowling, hiking, go karts, a sporting event, are all good ideas for a first date. I've noticed that seeing someone's competitive side is a good way to get to know them. So if need be, break out the board games at Starbucks and get to know one another over an intense game of Connect Four or Scrabble! LOL