TO......VIEW MY PROFILE! gotchya!
Well, I don't need to post a shirtless pic to sum up what I'm all about or show off all my tats in means of proving how original, how daring or how much of a 'bad boy' I am...lol. Most of you (presumably ladies) know what I'm talking about?
Anyways, I got to thinking -why am I here?? Well probably for the same exact reason why you are... So describing myself, first, I am an intellect (I can't change that!). I am well read, often been called a walking encyclopedia, I'm versatile in many modes of occupation, otherwise, I am a jack of all trades. My pesonality consists of me being constantly curious for new knowledge. I'm sometimes easily bored with unstimulating subject matters. Things I cannot do is watch golf, or baseball on Tv. Rarely do I give one-word responses and I never have problems expressing myself.
What would I describe my hobbies and activities I'm interested in? well, of course, those stereotypical Coloradan activities, not to mention going to the parks, hearing music, firing up the BBQ, Singing karaoke, trying to dance, and alot more. I like night life, but within balace of course. I like football, and most other sports but of course, but can only take so much of it. I'm particularly fond of anything martial arts related -being that I've studied for over a dozen years. I don't watch much tv other than the news and what I can find on the internet. I've grown out of the frequenting of the bars recreation and limit myself to being around alot of alcohol. Don't get me wrong, I do LOVE my wine(s), but just don't need it to enjoy myself and others.
It would be nice to meet someone sees the joys of food as much as I do, or atleast appreciates some of the passion that goes into its creation -Yes, I cook ALOT, having worked in the kitchens in college, and I do have a daily routine spent in the kitchen making meals - I don't eat out all that often, and when I do, I like to order something that's too much effort to make myself. Been told that I'm a Culinary Mcguyver literally,(however without the mullet). For instance, it's 12:45pm, it's too late to go out, laziness and fatigue rule out the chance of going out to the store, You got a couple random cans in your cuppboard, something in the freezer, or something in the fridge (no,not that three month old take-out sitting in the back of the fridge)- I've got an idea that just might work? Time's ticking, and I get to work.
On a more intimate note, what's important to me, philosophically, is that i come from the frame of thought stating that our thoughts and the ways in which we think, as well as our attitudes are extremely influencial in what we manifest, otherwise, what we are creating. Otherwise, how we view ourselves, other people, and life itself determines our reality. (and no, I'm not copying the whole Operah/'The Secret' hype -I've known about this way long before). I beleive that we need to project ONLY what we want, and not what we do not want. I do not beleive in judging people, assuming, or conversing about people when they're not there. I am a positive person, hopefully you are too.
I am also a spiritual being, an very open minded. I am not a "God Fearing" person, but a God Embracing spirit (think about that one). I don't simply believe everything that's hammered forced at me - in regards to religion. I do beleive in Karma, heavily, as I have subjectively seen and experienced how it works. My goal of attaining clarity, peace, sound mind/body/spirit is something that I (try) to work on each day, thus working on my daily meditation and maintaining my space by staying grounded is important to me in order to stay positive and have a grounded state of being.
I'm looking to connect with someone who's very much seeing the world as I do and look for a mutual experience, bound by mutual attraction, that maybe develops into something more? I'm not in a rush to try and figure someone out too quickly, or desperately lonely. Yeah a date or get together would be nice and all, although I'm patiently awaiting for the right person to cross paths with and The soul connection, at first, MUST be there - you either know this or not. As sincere as all of my outlooks and beliefs on life sounds, I am actually a very humorous person - I must laugh everday, and look at the lighter sides of life. I sometimes catch myself giggling for no reason because I saw the irony of something I witnessed or remembered a joke.

I'm looking to attract an emotionally and psychologically secure, independent, motivated, aspiring, career oriented, intelligent, passionate, compassionate, insightful, and real person., oh yes, Please be a non smoker... this is mandatory, no if-and's-or BUTTS! IT's attractive when people do things to take care of their bodies. Smoking isn't one of them. At times it can be a turn off as well as a mood kill. Sorry if you feel otherwise. If you're quitting smoking and are sincere, then let's talk. .

I have reservations on that word "date" because it brings out a series of expectations and obligations that elicits unneccessary behaviors. Things should just flow, and the natural next step should occur. Let's keep this idea of a get together as something not so cerebral. Hanging out with someone, even if it's for just a short day, is an easy idea. That simple! No situations like on that show "blind date"..If things don't click, then it's nice to have met another friend atleast...? Nevertheless, I was raised as a gentleman, so I do have a tremendous amount of respect and sense of boundries.
A first get together with anyone involves alot of conversation and getting to know each other - perhaps over Drinks, coffee/tea or a nice walk somewhere beautiful would be nice too. And Please, don't come from the school of thought where the man has to make up all the decisions - where we're going or what we're doing..etc.. I like a person who can be independant, assertive, a critical thinker and has likes and a mind of her own. I may be chivalrous, but not controlling in any way.
I'm up for anything fun really. Things I like are live music, singing (watch out, I do karaoke), dancing..etc.. THAT kind of night-time stuff, or simply something during the day. One thing I have is a huge passion and love for cooking, BBQ'ing, having nice dinners (not surprising), So just hanging out and having a nice picnic would be fun and a nice way to get to know someone.
Now that you've read my novel are are interested in learning about what i'm not going to tell you here, then
You should IM me sometime on Yeahwho at Gonzoted and say HI or email me!