The cutie on my shoulders is my niece. I have no kids. ;)

I am 39, live by O'Hare airport, a self employed anti geek-oid (I DO have social skills) Computer Tech and web design/e-commerce provider.

I am of Greek descent, born in America. I can cook but don't like lamb. Nor do I own stock in Windex. Haven't you ever watched BIG Fat Greek Wedding?

Please, I appreciate all e-mails, but, if you do not have a pic on your profile, attach one in the e-mail. You know how I look, and the beginning to any good relationship is fairness and equality. OK.... who am I fooling here, I like to know what my stalkers look like!

ABOUT YOU:I am interested in meeting a female, big heart, loving, maturity and chemistry required. She must know who she is, and what she wants. Must be emotionally available. Someone that can effectively relate and express herself, aka know how to nicely say what is on your mind, not assume and let things go. =) Someone loyal, committed, honest, and has a love for life.

A mother at heart that will be able to be adult enough to teach and guide her children and the children of the world, but enough "child" in her to be young at heart. Also, know if you want to date, or are looking for a serious relationship. No "hidden" agendas. Lets be honest and forthright so there are no hurt feelings later on. I am open to someone to go to the movies with spend quality time to get out and have some good fun or find my future mate and work toward a long term, as I want to get married and have children in my life, the whole 9 yards. I believe in family. If you have children, that is OK too.

She must have looks? Absolutely! What type of looks? That is what is in my eye, no way to explain. But I guess attraction is the best way to explain it. Attraction doesn't require a certain hair color, size, curves etc...it just happens, especially if you love life and show it!

ABOUT ME:I am a gentleman, believe in chivalry and respect loving women. But this should not be mistaken as a door mat. I am a man and know how to handle myself, am Dominant and decisive.

I'm a committed, loyal, honest, fun, educated male, assertive, but not arrogant or stuck on myself. Joking sarcasm and quick wit is fun, but so is being serious when the situation warrants and calls for it. Life is short, I am not out to screw people, I like going to bed at night with a clear mind, but know how to handle myself if my loved ones or territory are threatened. Besides shared attraction, we must have the "click" where the 2 people are socially comfortable to interact and even be surrounded by silence. If either one of us are lacking either of the 2, failure is imminent.

I am 6ft tall ~ 190lbs, brown eyes, trimmed goatee, 2 arms, 2 legs all other body parts present.

I like to listen to 70s, 80s, 90s, Disco, Bon Jovi or Barry Manilow as much as a like listening to Pop, Nickleback, Lady GaGa or Daughtry. Battle between Top 40 & oldies. Sure enough to confuse my younger and older female stalkers! :P

Finally, be forewarned, sometimes I have longer hair, sometimes I have shorter hair, because I am donating it to charity for children that need hair due to illness. I am gifted with thick hair and it is not graying yet, therefore I am doing what will make me and someone else happy. So, if family, friends or yourself will have a problem with this... I am probably not for you. I am not selfish. I don't judge on looks, I would hope you are the same.


I would describe myself as an angel with his halo being held up with horns. Being an angel all the time is sweet but gets boring. Being a devil all the time is fun but gets you burned. Best of both worlds. Is that you too ? Good, the search is over, we have finally met! ;)

OK, now that you have made it this far, why not message me??? I can think I am great at X, Y & Z, but if others don't see it, it means nothing. But, I think I have scared off 99% of the females by this point, to the other 1%, I am anxious to hear from you! =)

1st dates should be simple. I think it is the basis of getting to know the person in front of you. Looking in each others eyes, comfortable silence, etc..... If 2 people can't get past these basic points, the chance for a successful partnership and bond are slim. So, if you agree with me, dinner for 2??????? ;)