I am not the jealous , clingy or needy kind , nor do I want that . I am the confident , attentive and fun loving kind . I'm just an ole' country boy that's lookin for a fun kinda gal that loves to laugh , is easy on the eyes and not too hard on the heart . Happy with herself , comfortable in her own skin , abit daring , abit wild and crazy but not into drugs , drama or games . A true independent kinda gal , well adjusted to her situation , untamed by her kids , pets or baggage . I like a gal that dresses nice , speaks well , is somewhat knowlegable of current events , projects a friendly attitude and is generally enjoyable to be around .

First date........this is tough question. When dealing with people you have meet through an on line dating site, the dynamics are drastically different from other more conventional encounters.

I am easy going, so not picky. Preferably, the meeting should be , over a drink , in/at a place where conducting a conversation is not a struggle. I believe, we either experience an immediate chemistry or we don't.

Once the chemistry has been identified, the common interest would dictate the next step. This could be anything from a walk on the boardwalk , grab a hot dog or a more traditional meal , listen to some music , whatever .
I have no preconceived expectations or itinerary. A first date (which more resembles an interview) should be relaxing, fun and comfortable for both parties.

Forewarned..........I would not be inclined to fabricate a catastrophe nor climb out the bathroom window if things were not going well. I am the type of person to simply say..."This is not for me, good luck"... and hope you can manage the same .