**PROMISE YOURSELF TO BE STRONG, THAT NOTHING CAN DISTURB YOUR PEACE OF MIND.
**LOOK AT THE SUNNYSIDE OF EVERYTHING & MAKE YOUR OPTIMISMS COME TRUE.
**THINK ONLY OF THE BEST, WORK ONLY FOR THE BEST & EXPECT ONLY THE BEST.
**FORGET THE MISTAKES OF THE PAST & PRESS ON TO THE GREATER ACHIEVEMENTS OF THE
FUTURE.
**GIVE SO MUCH TIME TO THE IMPROVEMENT OF YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE NO TIME TO
CRITICIZE OTHERS.
**LIVE IN THE FAITH THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS ON YOUR SIDE SO LONG AS YOU ARE TRUE TO
THE BEST THAT IS IN YOU.

****** INDIVIDUAL, PARTNER, FRIEND, MATE, CONFIDANT OR COMPANION? BUT AS MANY OF US, WE TEND TO BE A BIT APPREHENSIVE AS TO THAT APPROACH OF ALLOWING SOMEONE INTO OUR TRUE SELVES OF HOPES, DREAMS, LOVES, ASPIRATIONS, THOUGHTS, OPINIONS, ETC... WONDERING IF WE ARE ABLE TO MEASURE UP TO THAT GOAL OF EXPECTED UNITY? THIS IS A DIFFICULT JOURNEY OF SEEKING TO BRING SOMEONE INTO OUR COMFORT ZONE. I HAVE PERSONALLY EXPERIENCED, THAT THERE ARE MANY INDIVIDUALS WHO DESCRIBE THEMSELVES AS SOMEONE THEY WOULD LIKE TO BE, (BY FAR CONTRAST)...THAN THAT OF WHOM THEY ACTUALLY ARE.I WELCOME THE CHALLENGE TO HAVE THIS OPPURTUNITY OF MAKING SOLID CHOICES THAT "HONOR" WHO I AM & THAT OF WHOM I CHOOSE TO BE A PART OF MY LIFE. THIS I BELIEVE IS A GOAL THAT IS "ATTAINABLE, NOT "UNATTAINABLE... NOT HERE TO BE MOBOLIZED BY FEAR, UNCERTAINTY, DISAPPOINTMENT, OR FAILURE. I REALIZE, " I AM WHAT I CREATE".


***** MY NAME IS THYME,( A NICKNAME OF SORTS) SOON TO BE 37 YRS OLD. I AM THE PROUD MOTHER OF A BEAUTIFUL, MOTIVATED, INTELLEGENT, VIBRANT,TREND SETTING, OVER ACHEIVING, GRACIOUS, 18 YR OLD DAUGHTER. MY GREATEST LIFETIME "HERO", MY TRUE JOURNEY OF STRUCTURE... I AM A SHY LONER WHO IS CONFIDENT, SECURE, CHARMING, HUMOROUS & CONFIDENT IN MY OWN SKIN. I LIKE TO CONSUME A HEALTHY DIET & EXERCISE WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT. LOVE THE OUTDOORS SCENIC ACTIVITIES SUCH AS ROLLERBLADING, HIKING, CYCLING, PICNICS & FISHING, LOVE ALL SEAFOOD & VEGETABLES. VIEWING THE MOUNTAINS, CAMPFIRES & DRIVE-IN MOVIES ARE A DEFINITE ADDITION. I PLAN TO CONTINUE MY EDUCATION IN THE FIELD(S) OF BUSINESS TECHNOLOGY. SOUNDS A BIT CORNY, BUT I FEEL IT IS AN OCCUPATION THAT WILL ALLOW ME TO EXPAND MY HORIZONS TO MANY LEVELS OF OPPURTUNITIES OF EDUCATIONAL GROWTH, NOT TO MENTION FASHIONABLE, LOL.



***** I WISH TO CORRESPOND TO INDIVIDUALS OF ALL GENDERS, ORGINS, RACES, ETC... I HAVE HAD THE GREAT FORTUNE THUS FAR TO MEET REALLY AWESOME PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE. NOT ALWAYS A "WALK IN THE PARK", BUT I LIKE TO FOCUS MORE SO ON THE POSITIVE OUTCOMES, THAN THAT OF THE NEGATIVE. "WHEN I HAVE LISTENED TO MISTAKES, I HAVE GROWN". AS IF 5'11" ISNT TALL ENOUGH, LOL. I ALSO WOULD RECOMMEND THE "FORUMS" THEY ARE FANTASTIC, INSIGHTFUL & PRECAUTIONARY.
12/17/09. ***** UPDATE- I WOULD LIKE TO INCLUDE A FEW MENTIONS... IF I ADD YOU AS A

FAVORITE, IT IS DUE TO I LIKE WHAT IS SAID IN YOUR PROFILE. NOTHING MORE OR LESS OF

YOU. I HAVE BEEN ON THIS SITE NOW FOR A BIT NOW, & HAVE MET ALL TYPES THAT HAVE

BEEN A PLEASURE, OR NOT AS SUCH. THAT'S LIFE, NO GRIPES,OR COMPLAINTS.

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE RESPECTFUL,TRUTHFUL, DIGNIFIED, THOUGHTFUL & COMPASSONATE.

IF I FEEL I CANNOT DO SO I THINK IT BEST WE DO NOT CORRESPOND.



********** WITH THAT BEING SAID I HAVE CHOSEN TO ONLY RESPOND TO THOSE WHO CONTACT

ME FIRST. I AM NOT ONE WHOM I WOULD WANT TO BE PROTRAYED AS "DESPERATE", I FEEL IF

YOU HAVE AN GENUINE INTEREST OF KNOWING ME, THAN YOU SHOULD INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO

ME. I AM NOT SAYING THAT FOR A STATEMENT OF ENTITLEMENT, I JUST AM ONE WHO SEEMS TO

HAVE DIFFICULTY AT TIMES AS TO WHAT TO SAY, NOT TO MENTION THAT MANY OF YOU USE

THIS FORUM AS AN "EGO BOOSTER"... TO EACH THEIR OWN. I JUST WANT TO CORRESPOND

WITH "REAL" & "GROUNDED INDIVIDUALS", SERIOUSLY. NOT A DIFFICULT REQUEST ON MY

PART, TO SAY THE LEAST. I AM SEEKING FRIENDS, ON A SOCIAL LEVEL OF ALL.



** I RESIDED IN ONTARIO,CANADA FOR 15 YEARS, DON'T KNOW MANY YANKEES. I AM NOT HERE

TO BE PRENTITOUS, FLAKY, DERRANGED, MISGUIDED, SLUTTY, UNBALANCED, DRAMA QUEEN, OR

THAT FACT ANY OTHER "WING-NUTT" EXCUSE YOU THINK IT IS YOU'VE HEARD BEFORE. I HAVE

HAD GREAT RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN, SO NO HORRID STORIES TO SHARE, NOR WOULD I...

I AM TOO WELL GROUNDED, AMBITIOUS, PRODUCTIVE, FOCUSED & SPIRITUAL. THERE ARE MANY

OF YOU ON THIS SITE THAT ARE DECENT, MORAL & RESPECTFUL INDIVIDUALS. YOU SO TOTALLY

ROCK.... AND MANY WHO JUST NEED TO STROKE THEIR EGOS. IF IT WORKS FOR YOU, COOL...

WHO AM I TO JUDGE HOW YOU INTERACT. IT'S YOUR PREFERENCE TO DO SO.

***** IF YOU ARE AN ABUNDANCE OF GOOD CHARACTER, INTEGRITY, WIT, PERSONALITY,

RESPECT & HUMOR. I AM SURE WE WILL HAVE A BLAST THANK YOU KINDLY FOR TAKING YOUR

VALUED TIME TO BRIEF MY "BIO", AND IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU HAVE ANY OF THE "FLAWS"

I HAVE PROCLAIMED NOT TO HAVE, JUST REBAIT THAT HOOK & RECAST YOUR LINE.

~THYME~.

TO GO FORTH ALONE AND STAND AS TEN THOUSAND. I'LL THINK OF ALL WHO'VE COME BEFORE ME AND HAD TO ENDURE TRIALS THAT WOULD LEVEL MOST OF US IN OUR COMFORT ZONES, AND I SHALL REALIZE I'M NOT THE FIRST PERSON TO FACE BIG CHALLENGES. THIS HAS BEEN DONE BEFORE, I CAN DO IT AGAIN, MAYBE EVEN BETTER....

A RELAXED & MUTUAL ENVIRONMENT WHERE THERE IS NO PRESSURE BESTOWED UPON US... BE SURE TO BRING YOUR PERSONALITY & SENSE HUMOR WITH YOU. YES, COMMON SENSE IS INCLUDED.