it's an ability... that I once had... and seem to have lost..care to help me find it again?

I promise, you will NEVER see "unread/deleted" on any 1st mail I get..to me... that is just so rude.....
**** I want to wake up next to someone I adore*******
*****and go to sleep next to someone who adores me*******
that should be a "doable"thing.. don't ya think?
I have been on this site for awhile , and it is time to update the profile,9/2/09 I have met some nice ladies, some strange ladies, some who liked me more than I liked them, and visa versa.
Also a few with whom I went out a few times…. But nothing has truly clicked, and I won’t settle, and I won’t give up.. you are out there…
I am a 59 year old non-drinking non smoking man. I know how to talk WITH a lady, not AT her… I also know how to listen, and not try to fix anything, just be there for the good and the bad.. I can and do cook, and not just grill, I like to read, go to art show and the like. I am a retired system administer for Bellsouth, so I also like using and working on computers. Need help????
I have a motorcycle, but it is not the result of a mid-life crises, I have had them since I was 14. I like to go out to dinner, parks, and all the “normal” stuff, and I do like to stay in for Redbox night…
I am looking for a lady who can appreciate me for who, and what I am, one who doesn’t play games, other than backgammon and such. One who likes affection, and does not look at sex like a chore…that is not all I am looking for, could have had that with some of the folks from the site, but it is an IMPORTANT part… As I said, I don’t drink, have not for 18 years, it is ok if you drink some, but I don’t want or need a drunk in my life, could have had those from the site also….I would like a lady more on the thin side, but not a twiggy, I know we all add things as life goes on..also I would like a lady close to my own age, 49-62 I feel we would have more to talk about, more in common, and that is also important.
If you like what you have read, there is more, a whole lot more, that makes me, me… and I would love to share that with someone…..make contact I have, and will reply to all inquires.
AND IF YOU HAVE A PIC, PLEASE MAKE IT CURRENT!! MINE ARE, A LOT ARE NOT....ALSO, I DID NOT MAKE AN "ERROR" ON MY AGE, WHAT YA SEE IS WHAT YA "COULD" GET

meet for breakfast or lunch, coffee at book store.. see if we both want to continue...if so, take it from there