I own and operate a business that helps adults with developmental disabilities, and we work with kids who have autisim in building self-esteem. I'm really dedicated to my job and I work a ton of hours, but I still try to find time to hang out with my friends and family. When I do have time I like to go surfing, hiking, I travel a lot. I play piano (Jazz), and I like to go out to local dive bars and jam with friends.

I joined this site because after numerous nightmare first dates, I figured this would be a good place to get to know someone a little before we meet.

I'd like to meet someone who is self confident, self sufficient, and has a life of their own. I want to be able to add to your incredible life, not be your incredible life. A sense of humor for sure, and someone who loves to have fun no matter what they are doing.

Also I usually check this site from my phone... so the IM's never work.

I'm not a coffee drinker, so I think a dinner in a fun and relaxed environent would be a good way to get to know someone.