In relationships theres a formula to make it last and if you remove any small part of it you risk messing up the relationship......the formula is as follows:

You have your friends......he has his friends.....and then u have your friends together!
You have your time......he has his time......then u have your time together.
If you remove part of this or insist that part of it be removed then you throw off the balance of a good relationship.

People need time apart as much as you want to spend it together, you need to keep your independance, you need to keep your friends, you need to be able to still be yourself and not change who you are! This is where we all make our mistakes.

I believe in girls nites out, and I believe in boys nites out.
I believe flirting is natural and a part of life.
I believe you can be in a relationship and still flirt because.....
ITS ALL ABOUT MUTUAL RESPECT!! When with someone honesty is important and so is mutual respect, thats another part of the formula.
I believe jealousy is poison! and poison in a relationship is toxic.
And I believe to keep the jealousy away you add communication in there with the mutual respect.

Mutual respect + honesty + communication + independance + individuality = trust

not a hard equation....just takes a few sh*tty relationships to clue in to all this and learn from your mistakes.....this answers the "where did I go wrong" question!

My partner in crime will know when we go to a club or where ever that they can look, and smile and flirt and enjoy and not feel they have blinders on and have to be focused on me. They dont have to feel that their world revolves around me because it doesnt. We are human, its human nature to look, and admire others and if you do it doesnt mean your feelings towards your partner are not strong. Being yourself and being allowed to be yourself helps solidify a union! An i also think! Girls are like apples on trees.The best ones are at the top of the tree.The boy's don't wan't to reach for the good ones because they are affraid of falling an getting hurt.Instead, they just get rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good,but easy.So the appples at the top think somethings wrong with them,when in reality,they're amazing.They just have to wait for the right boy to come along,the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree! I think i'm going to be that BOY! who climbs that tree! Have-->
Class!
Class never runs scared.It is sure-footed and confident,and it can handle whatever comes along.
Class has a sence of humor.It knows that a good laugh is the best lubricant for oiling the machinery of human relations.
Class never makes excuses,It takes it's lumps and learns from past mistakes.
Class knows that good manners are nothing more thana series of small sacrifices,and minor inconveniences.
Class bespeaks an aristocracy unrelated to ancestors or money.Some extremely wealthy ppl have no class at all,while others who are struggling to make nds meet are loaded with it.
Class is real.You can't fake it.
Class is comfortable in it's own skin.It it never put's on airs.
Class never tries to build it's self up by tearing others down.
Class is already up and need not attempt to look better by making others look worse.
Class can "walk with kings and keep it's virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch"Everyone is comfortable with the person who has class because he is comfortable with himself.
If you have class,you've got it made.If you don't have class no matter what else you have,it won't make up for it!

Maybe lay in a clover patch an see if we find a 4 leaf one!while we chatt!