Well, lets see here. the last time i filled this out, i wrote a huge thing about me and all the things one might want to know about me, and maybe i didnt leave much for the imagination so im not going to be as descriptive this time.
i can say this much....actions speak so much louder then words, im a hopeless romantic and like to spoil people i care about. ive certainly been down enough bumpy roads to know a smooth one when it comes along. i have a wide variety of interests yet am open to new things.
ive been on here long enough to see some " lifers" on this site. maybe they choose to date here because its safe? what is life without chances? whats the worst thats gonna happen, we meet and figure out there is nothing between us, but maybe there will be, or maybe we become friends and actually push the power button and get out of our chairs and feel the warmth of the sun together. im looking for someone to go out and do things with in real life. if your intent is to just be friends here, ya might wanna check out someone else.
talking about boat rides, bike rides, steak dinners on the grill etc is NOT even close to actually doing these things. some people are happier talkin about things and dreaming about them, and never take the time or put forth the effort to make these things become reality, if that makes any sense.
im fairly strong willed, and have overcome alot in my life, so i tend to be more of a doer then a talker.
on another note i would like to point a huge double standard!!!!
im not tiny nor will you find me on the cover of fit or gq any time soon, but that doesnt mean im ugly either. they have whole site dedicated to large woman and them men who adore them. most large woman still find themselfs attractive, and would be described by thier friends as pretty etc. but why is it that a guy can carry a lil weight and no one looks twice at him? i guess i could look at it in the negative and think that most woman are to shallow to see whats inside? id like to think that there are still people who value the quality of a person and thier integrity more then thier looks........i hope im right!
as far as a friend or lover, youd be hard pressed to find someone more dedicated them me
so, what are ya waiting for? life is out there waiting for us to come get it......lets go chase it down together

new pics, my mother and I, and my partner in crime! lol he just looks cute but dont let him fool ya! lol
a first date.......way to many ideas to put down here. guess youll just have to take a chance and see what i can come up with. i promise itll be fun