So where the hell does a sincere, outwardly rough and tumble and inwardly romantic and sensitive guy go to find a good guy? For me it's certainly not gay bars. It's not the grocery store and, so far, it hasn't been the internet. I know I'm picky in some ways, but in other ways I'm not. I need to be attracted to my guy.....but he doesn't need to be perfect. He needs to be masculine and handsome, but he doesn't need to be an Adonis.
Me: Typical guy on the exterior.....working-class Boston demeanor. I come off as little brash at times, I know this. But those who get to know me usually find that I'm deeper than that. I'll let you decide after getting to know me. My interests include: movies, dining, outdoors/walking, lifting, museums, baseball games, politics, history, coffee shops, poker/cards and other stuff.
You would be 30ish to 42ish, Caucasian, smart (demonstrated by your intellectual and social curiosity, not by diplomas or accomplishments), boyishly handsome, with solid character. To me that means you firmly grasp concepts like LOYALTY, HONESTY and HUMILITY. I like guys from working-class backgrounds. Physically I prefer guys who are average over guys who live in the gym. You would also be open to the give and take work required in any relationship.
Something that involves a lot of getting to know one another.......not a movie.....and not sex. Can hang out in a gay venue for a social purpose, but otherwise not comfortable in popular gay settings. Much rather hangout in a local Irish Pub or a coffee shop.
(Live in Mid-Atlantic but am in Southern GA on business)
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