Seems Essex County is SERIOUSLY lacking in single men who want to date women my age. Doesn't matter where I go, men are attached, alternative lifestyle or addicts with baggage or are looking for a mother figure. Some just keep viewing my profile but never write. What's up with that?

I'm not looking to just JUMP into a long term relationship. Depending how we get along (if I ever meet anyone) we should start as friends, there MUST be some chemistry on both sides to continue. You must also have a good sense of humour to be around me. I am NOT looking for a long distance relationship either or to be driving an hour one way.

I'm outgoing, the jokester, have good morals and don't play games or put up with nonsense. I like to help others, I'm involved in volunteering, I'm a spiritual person but that doesn't mean I'm a stick in the mud. I speak several languages and have travelled a fair bit. I like the simple things in life no extravagance. I'm quite the handywoman and like dudes who aren't afraid to get their hands dirty.
*NOTE* I'm 5'9" in runners. I find it very uncomfortable to be looking down at a man. No offense. Oh and "separated" still means MARRIED! (unless your papers are in the process)

I'd rather call it a friendly encounter. I'm a pretty simple gal, if the company is interesting the place doesn't really matter as long as it's in public LOL!