Can I ask most all you men on POF something?
Why do you guys post really BADDDDDD pictures? Hey, I see them....
They are too far away, or your with sun glasses on with your face hidden from view?
Geesh, post a good picture already (have pride) as first impressions count!
Bad spelling? ok, I can handle that -- but a bad picture no...

Especially if your looking to date and find someone, ok?


As for me I recently ended a LTR. It deeply hurt my heart and me (emotionally) speaking, and I'm trying to heal up from that experiance.

If your not a patient man -- one who is willing to allow me to get to know you first -- then most likely, I'm not the right lady for you.
I want to get to know anyone I would seriously consider wanting to be with -- in any way -- as a person first and formost!

I am a straight SWF. I am well educated, opinionated, direct, (assertive - at times) independent, kind, very thoughtful, and loyal -- and I am seeking the same.

Please be interesting, intelligent, and have a sense of humor.
It seems loyalty and honesty went out of fashion now-days, but rest assured that if you possess this quality? It will most surely get you a second glance from me.

Physical attraction is very important, but subjective. You must be taller than I am, preferably by at least a few inches, and you must be straight sexually.

It is hard for me to describe what I am looking for, but I know it when I encounter it.

I am NOT interested if:

-You are a liar or a player. If you quibble about the definition of either, you are probably one or both. Please move on. We will not be a good match.

-You are married or attached. I will not be part of creating heartache for one
(myself) or two, your wife! Besides, if you are not strong enough to leave a bad marriage, you are not strong enough to handle me or any relationship - period.

1/2 Italian 1/2 Irish.
I eat right and now I am back working out 5 days a week. I have a 24hr Fitness membership, so if you have one and we click - we might even do this together sometime?
I just started a new business, I work (VERY) hard - upfront, it sometimes calls for weekends - during the holiday peaks.
Please understand that my time spent with you, I prefer and want to be "special" for the both of us.


My body -- average.
My picture's reflect me and most are to date - current
No false advertising -- not my style, and would appreciate the same from you!
If your expecting a real curvy Anna Nichole?
Well fella's, I'm not her. I have some curve - yes, but not like her and at least I'm honest. I may not be the best "looker" in town, but for myself, I know that I MORE than make that up with my "Zest" for life. My sincerity about it and in class!

My pictures are current (period) - are yours?
Again, I expect the same from you!
(Meaning)It's not nice to post 1-6 year old pic's of yourself. Please just be honest with me -- as I hate deception.

And also please look at my interests and see if we honestly have any common ground before writing me.

This woman is here for -- and would like to find a good/decent man to share this next chapter of her life with. I desire to find the "right" guy.
Also please only write me if you're a man who's truly secure and mature enough to want a relationship -- but your also ok to have a bit of time now and then for yourself as well.
I believe that some personal time is needed by everyone to stay well grounded in life.
ie: I like to get my hair/nails done and sometimes (I do not want you with me for this) rarely, I like to go to lunch/dinner or a movie with a girlfriend or two - and that's my little bit of time for me.
I just want you to be independent enough to be okay with a little time by and for yourself now and then -- if I need it.


(NOW, A BIT MORE ABOUT ME)
I love -- and very much enjoy cooking.
I'm Italian, my mom was a great cook (thanks mom) and I'm told anyway -- that her skills passed-on to me. I also enjoy and love being around children and animals -- like - dining out, dancing, movies, boating, fishing, camping.
I love to go to the park near my house and when I can get free, to take my dog a Yellow Lab (F) for a jog with me.
I also like just taking a break and relaxing too -- even sharing a walk and some "Gellato" with you -- on a warm summer's night.

I'm very-much a PDA person, but I have to feel it for you first.
I'd like to meet someone who also enjoys giving it back, as well.

I enjoy a last minute day/weekend trips( pre-planned is good as well) also finding a new place to see (or) thing to do.
But want someone special in my life to share and enjoy doing this type of stuff with..

So, would you care to join me (or) perhaps have me join you?
I enjoy music and reading as well, and I'm diverse in my taste/s for both.

This woman seeks an active, honest, sincere and kind male 34-55.

If you're seeking a woman who's easy, she does not care if she gets to know you (or) if you want only a one time fling, then (for sure) I'm not the woman for you.
I'm a very smart, capable and established woman -- a REAL woman, who goes so very much deeper than that.


My Ideal MAN:
I'm seeking a special man -- between 35-50 years old.
Be single, I want (YOU) to have your own place!
Not living at home with your Mom (or) roomie/s please.
Looking for a man that is giving, sensual, in -touch sexually, kind, good hearted/spirited.
A good soul and he enjoys giving to his woman and cares about my needs as his lady and he's also man enough to be able to let me give back to him as well............
I also like men that are little bit of a bad-boy -- or a tad, on the spicy side.
Some "Tabasco" now and then is desired -- and very good for this woman.

NOT interested in already attached men,
please don't ask.


BE clean, everyone should have good hygiene, this is a no-compromise area..
Be real, no B.S. (or) Drama wanted.
Life is short, so let's live it already..
Be yourself, be honest, and let's see where it goes.

Let's just have a casual drink at first, and if that goes well we can go from there.
Be real. be you -- I'll be me. Let's enjoy life and see what happens.
No drama, and with no added stress/es.

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