So yeah.... figured it's time to update the "Profile".. . Not that what I've written is untrue in anyway, just think I've realized something... I don't know if online dating is for me... no really. Over the last few months I've message'd many of you, a little "Hi... How are ya?" here and there... Chatting really more than anything else, some have replied.. once or twice... some I chat with almost every day... Some used their own pictures, some used their friends pic's and some I think cut them out of a magazine...lol.... I know I should'nt laugh, I know, your sayin' "look at the pictures that you have up there, Who do you think you are"... I'll tell ya who I am... I am probably one of the most confident people you will ever meet, I do what I like when I like, I treat people the way I like to be treated, and everyone gets the benefit of the doubt, initially...
I decided a long time ago that I deserved to be treated with respect, I have a lot of friends that look up to me, they know that if there is something that I can do for them i'm there...
...And still every woman on this site is looking for a "Nice Guy"... A guy that will treat them the way they deserve to be treated, Hey ladies... give it up... I may be single... but i'm not desperate...;p If you believe that you should'nt have to work.. Keep Goin' If you feel that you are far too pretty to sweat and you could'nt possibly do anything physical...lol.. Keep Goin' If you feel that your "Biological Clock" is tickin' and and you don't have much time left....;)... Keep Goin' I'm 35 yrs old and I learn something new every day... When I stop learning I get bored... Wether it's my Professional or Personal life... I started going out with my first real girlfriend when I was 13... we split up when I was 24 .. we had essentially grown up, we were different people than when we met, she has probably had more of an influence on me than anyone else in my life, with the exception of my mother that is, but she taught me so much, We both grew up with each other and that is one of the major aspects that has molded me into who I am today. My Mother taught me to have inner strength, to respect others, she taught me that when you start something you need to finish it, to stand up for what you believe in... My Father taught me to work hard, he taught me that nobody would respect me if I did'nt respect myself and that if it comes right down to it... Defend what you know is right.

So back to the online dating scene... lol... kinda got side tracked...;p...
I know what yer thinkin'..."Man this guy is an ***hole..." you know what you may be right... I mean after all I'm looking for a fantasy woman, no really... I'm looking for a woman that wants to work for a living... Man what am I thinkin'... I'm looking for a woman that is confident with herself because if your not happy with yourself you can't be happy with anyone else... I'm looking for a woman that is comfortable with herself, so what you have a few extra pounds, use it baby.. nothin' more sexy than a woman I can't pick up with one hand...;) now that being said I am in the best shape of my life, at 35 yrs old I have people tell me almost on a daily basis that I look younger than I am... I train on a regular basis and eat "mostly" healthy... and if there is one thing I really dislike... It's lazyness...People complaining because they are so fat and out of shape but choose to complain about how much their life sucks rather than try... I love the Great Outdoors and take every opportunity I can to just get out and do something, anything... Rock Climbing, Mountain Biking, Wake Boarding, Running, Walks through the Woods, Runs through the Woods, Beach Combing, Driving with my Girl in the front seat and my Dog in the back...;p I work to live and thats it, when I leave work I leave it at work... I love giving back rubs, not because they are expected, but because I enjoy it, I Won't enjoy it if it's expected... That goes for everything I do... I do things for the girl i'm with because I want to, and I enjoy it, I will not ask you to get me a beer, cook my meals, do my laundry, wash my dishes or clean my toilet... but I will do them for you, I will open the door for you but every now and then you should be able to open your own doors...lol... I'm looking for a girl that likes to get out there and do it... without worrying about what everyone else is gonna say... **** em, there is only one person who has to live this life of ours... only one...

So now your really thinkin'"This Guy is Freak"... lol... Uh Huh... Somewhat.. I'm self diagnosed OCD, and if you have to look that up... Keep Goin'... But I find it helps rather than hinders... It gives me the patience to do things right, I pay attention to detail, I can take anything apart and put it back together... and when I put it back together it works...for the most part...;p...

I learn something from everyone I meet and I find the things that scare me the most are the things I don't know about myself, I will do almost anything... at least once, you learn the most about yourself when you are in an uncomfortable situation, and not "Danger" uncomfortable, the uncomfortable you feel when you do something for the first time that pushes your personal limits, There is nothing like the feeling of doing something for the very first time, You know the feeling... think back to your first bike ride without training wheels... Your first slow dance... Your first Kiss... One of my Ex Girlfriends used to say "...If your not afraid... Your not learning anything..." She was a smart girl.. I Truly Love her...
It did'nt work out as you can probably tell but I would'nt trade those years for anything, she also had a huge part in who I am today... she taught me to push myself past the comfort zone... to not get trapped by what I knew but to keep pushing, moving, learning... she opened my eyes to new things and that started a completely different way of thinking for me...

My little brother died in a car accident 5 years ago, one day after his sons birthday and one day before mine.. and if there is one thing it taught me it's that life is too ****in' short for drama, un-happiness, letting the little things get you down... Settling for something because it's comfortable... and staying in relationships that clearly are not going to work... I don't give up easily... but eventually I will give up... I never chase women, if your not interested thats cool, if you are let me know, if you want me to compete for your "Love"... Keep Goin'... lol

Long read I know but this was I think more for me than it was for you... not like it's gonna help me pick up any ladies...lol.. and you never know one of you may even read the whole thing... Meh... Whatever...

Feel free to check out some of my artwork... It'll give you a small glimps of who I am... http://www.virtualvisionz.com

Anything outside, Maybe a little drive through the country on my bike, a short walk to see if we click, you can usually tell pretty much right away... Life is too short to waste time on something that is clearly going no where...