I am a very active guy who has worked for many years in sales and marketing in the television industry. I have been separated and living apart for seven years. Finally going through with the legal part and will be divorced soon. I'm physically fit, work out and play racquetball regularly in the city. I really prefer the competitive and social elements of racquetball to a stairmaster. I also play and write music in my spare time and have very eclectic taste in the music I like to listen to-rock, folk, jazz, bluegrass. I enjoy good food and drink, like to cook, eat out often, love to hike up on Mt. Tam and go to the wine country and the beach, but am also happy to spend quiet time at home. I have two daughters (24 and 17), and have a good relationship with both, see them regularly. I am 56 years old, 5'10" and 160 lbs, though most people think I'm in my forties (got lucky with the genes, I guess.) I have hazel eyes. I enjoy working in a community of people, sharing collaboratively, and mentoring younger people to be successful in their own careers.

I would like to be with someone who is active and enjoys themselves and being with other people, who is intelligent and interesting and can hold up a conversation, but is also a comfortable listener or sharing quiet space. Someone who cares about being romantic and loyal, as I am also both. I've been told that I'm very kind and generous. I love to laugh......at the world and myself.

I feel very lucky to be able to live in such a wonderful place and don't take it for granted. Not too much better than a quiet hike up on Mt. Tam or early morning at the beach.
As I'm also sure with anyone that may respond to this, we must also feel a physical attraction to each other.

For a first date, I would be happy taking a woman out to a meal or even sharing a cup of coffee in a relaxed environment, taking a hike or a glass of wine. Am happy to share pictures.