Hi Guys~

I have very specific tastes as to the character of a man so pay attention please. Your looks aren't as important as your intellect unless you're morbidly obese, then you have more issues to deal with than I can possibly handle at this time.

A strong man who is making his mark on the world, lives healthy and comfortably, possesses intelligence, humor, compassion, community involvement, makes friends rather easily and enjoys an urban lifestyle. That means I like the Downtown Life. I am not a Country Girl looking for a Country Boy!

Sweet, Loving, Passionate, Charming, Giggly, Ticklish, Sexy, Bright Woman in search of a Delightful Man to compliment one another. Charm me, Delight me, Intrigue me for I make a wonderful companion to a special kind of Man. Looking for the bigger fish in this pond, one who has his life's plan in order, is happy, secure and searching for a marvelous woman to love! If you live more than 30 minutes away, there is an expectation that you will drive to see me first (chivalry & all) or meet me halfway.

I hope to find a man who cares about his community as much as he does his family and friends. You can demonstrate this by giving time to a favorite charity (Humane Society needs playful people for their charges) or being active in your city's business by attending Town Hall sessions or commissioners' meetings.

I WILL sit down to watch a sporting event but actually being there is more interesting to me than sinking into the couch. I would like to take up a semi-organized sport like beach volleyball or biking (I have a cool bicycle) to stay in shape. Rollerblading is fun when the environment is awesome! I like exercise that is enjoyable and more like a pleasant activity versus pure exercise. I'll try wind-surfing but only with the purchase of a professional full body massage afterwards! Rock climbing could be wild but I'm afraid of breaking a nail! :) I also prefer to tighten the gluteus maximus a bit more before you see me from below! :O

P.S. If you're the kind of guy that likes to spend lots of time at home or your friends call you a homebody... we won't be compatible. If you're "low-key" and quiet, you might feel like a doormat with me. And by the way, I'm not anybody's soulmate, I don't NEED you to make me happy nor should I be considered the solution on how to make you happy and THAT DAMN GLASS IS EMPTY NOW cause I've drank it all and I'm looking for more!

I want to spend time with a man who is outgoing, gregarious and enjoys being a part of the community. Hermits, agoraphobics and terminally shy guys need not apply. YOU won't be happy and I won't be satisfied. If you haven't had a 2-way love interest in the last 5 years or you've never lived with or been married to a woman, you might need additional relationship experience first. Please don't practice on me. I don't have enough patience for that...

Do you speak more than one language? I find that usually broadens one's viewpoint significantly. I am a globally minded person and formerly an Air Force BRAT (Daddy travelled us all over, in & out of the country!) Most people who haven't ever left their own county may not have much in common with me. Trying to be honest here!

By the way, Guys, sorry if you can't or won't post a picture... I don't respond to those who don't show their face in a public arena. Surely, you own a camera phone or know someone who does. If you swear that all you have is a body shot without a head, you lose! Don't be a crybaby about it, just post it! and no, I will not give you my email address for a private viewing. I'm not a collector and don't want to see your little winkie. That's why THIS format exists. Privacy is very important to me.

Also, if your profile is one of those that rants on about how mean the women are here, or is full of sarcasm or negativity, please don't email me. I like positive energy. Smile when you write me and you'll be alright with me!

I like first dates to be about conversation, sharing ideas. Keeping it simple over a coffee or sitting on a park bench allows us to talk with one another rather than be distracted by an activity. I am comfortable enough with myself to focus on you versus needing to do "something". Think of a first meeting as simply a get~together or a chance meeting with a new friend.