STOP!! DON'T GO ANY FURTHER!! I MAY BE A BIG GUY BUT I OFFER EVERYTHING YOU GIRLS CLAIM TO BE LOOKING FOR. i am a very caring and loving man who believes that a relationship of any kind deserves a full effort.I would like to start as friends first (no pressure no bad feelings) I stated dating but if i get a long term out of this then i'm up one. I have some old school in me. I am not into playing games as they get you no where in life, if you start off with a good foundation then you will have a solid building in the end. i believe that each person should be truthful in the beginning so that each other can give their best after that. if this sounds logical to you then please drop me a line. I am spiritual and have a very open mind, also I have been told on many occasions that i am somewhat philosophical. ( I think that just comes with age lol )
yes i have kids and they live with their mom,they don't need a mom, just a friend would be nice
Ps. a somewhat twisted sense of humor is helpful.

snuggling
just talking
and being open
are all positives

on the first date i think meeting somewhere for coffee thats not too distracting and just talk and get to know each other is a good way to start, i personally like the beach, sunsets, and rain storms as good places to talk