Sometimes, the best things are found in the most unlikely places; which is what leads me here. I am fearless but cautious. Love to hear from you. Forthright honesty is appreciated. Please don't hold back.

About me: Unattached, 40-34-38, thin-boned build, positive outlook, comfortable, well intentioned with a sense of sarcastic humor (I think I like slow jokes the best), well educated (accounting/finance but not a bean counter - have fulfilled some very cool ambitions). Kind, giving, and fairly patient - conversant and not afraid to be expressive.

Close to family with siblings living in NYC and Italy (most family lives elsewhere).

Likes: Eclectic tastes in food and entertainment, techno/blues/jazz (not c&w), contemporary design, fairly liberal world views, travel when planes are involved.

I like people with brave hearts, bold outlooks, genuinely caring and sharing dispositions; and who are well grounded in reality. I focus on the amusing and enjoy positive people who are like minded.

I dislike people who are superficial, condescending, rashly judgemental, elitist, fear mongers, religious fanatics, and/or tritely argumentative. There you go.

ON COMPATABILITY

Intellectual: 'Book larnin' is good, but not essential; intelligence is. Conversant and well written will certainly get you points. Personal integrity (distinguished from morality) is essential. I strive to be present and attentive with others.

Physical: Active, mutual chemistry is essential.

Sexual: Sexually spirited is good.

Lunch/dinner/dance/conversation or something else which you may be more comfortable with.

Female
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