I'm a 23 year old woman who has never been married and has no kids of her own, but doesn't mind those that do. I've been told I can seem a bit cold and unfriendly at first... but I swear, I'm not! It's just me being quiet and getting a feel for people.

I'm the type of person who looks to find the best in people, and if it's not readily apparent...cultivate the potential. At times I can be a bit quirky/silly/dorkish. You either like it or hate it. I love StarWars, Harry Potter, the Food Network Channel, Mimosas, Straws, Sweet'N'Low (re: addicted), randomness, and Dane Cook. If you happen to be a culinary genius, that will just cinch the deal. :O)

I'm looking for an intelligent, handsome, man who takes care of himself, has strong morals, and can be himself around me ...in turn making me comfortable enough to be myself around him. I'm highly devoted to my family, you should be too.

Please have a picture if you're going to contact me. It says a lot about a person's confidence if they can put themselves out there without fear of judgement. It's greatly appreciated!

I'm not into the drug scene and do consider marijuana a drug. If you've smoked more than once this year, we're probably not very compatible!

I like going out for drinks when possible and to spend time with friends, if you can hang with me and mine -Stop by and say hi! If you don't seem to be 'right' for me, say hi anyhow, always looking to make new friends!

My ideal first date would be something 'non-dateish' ...something where we didn't feel the need to just sit, exchange deep dark secrets, and discuss lifelong goals. Where's the fun in that? Let's go to a movie, a game, whatever. There is no set formula for a first date. Creativity and spontaneity are key!