This is where we all seem to be the same... we each want someone who reflects our outlook on life, but someone who challenges us, too. We all want to be happy, laugh, spend time with friends or alone together by a fire or on the beach. I've not read anyone's profile that hints she'd be happy with someone "who'll make me miserable, call me names, and never drop the seat when he's finished." So I'm hoping that you'll review my selected attributes from the limited choices we're provided, see if they work for you, and then test your nerve by dropping me a line or sending me a wink.... but, at the risk of appearing to be too superficial, profiles with pictures tend to get responses.