I am the proud father to two little boys, who I have half the time. But I can't just be a dad. I am looking for someone to spend time with and share the goodtimes. I would like to find someone who can make me laugh, who enjoys life, has a sense of adventure, but who is also mature sorted out and knows who they are.
I am a big time race fan.But unlike most men I enjoy talking about thing other than sports, subjects like emotions and other important stuff. Oh and I am an excellent cook, I do dishes, laundry, and I even know what a vacuum is and how to use it (although iI hate the damn thing). I am a very affectionate man, and am aware of my own feelings.I even enjoy cuddling, and will admit it. Oh and I have taken the time to find myself and am confident in who I am, and where I am going. I will also admit I like to have my own space from time to time, and would hope that would be respected. As you can likely tell from the screen name I am into cars, specifically I have restored a 1970 Cutlass. I have also been part of a pit crew for a local circle track team. And while I do enjoy dressing up for a night on the town, I also enjoy roughing it cooking on a fire while camping (in a tent). While I now work in an office I didn't always I used to work in social services and do believe in giving back and in social responsibilty.
I am looking for a relationship not a fling, with someone who is willing to allow the relationship find it's own way. I want someone who loves children and will accept that my boys come first when I have them but also knows that they will come first when the boys are not with me. While I am likely done having kids of my own, I still find a woman with children is very attractive, I love kids and the more the merrier. I am looking for a woman who is confident but not b***y. I have had my fill of head games and am looking for someone who is open honest and knows who they are and what they want(and aren't afraid to go after it). Someone who has a sense of humour and knows how to talk as well as listen. Most importantly someone who i can have a future with.

Something simple that would allow for conversation and us to get to know each other without expectations or pressure. Perhaps go for coffee/Tea or out for a simple diner somewhere.