| | I think the Internet can be a good way to meet people its just sorting through all the crap.. I'm not part of the crap. But I don't care to win anyone over if they aren't right for me. I'd like to meet a girl in or near Tulsa. Age about 19-27. I prefer being around people that don't smoke or drink a lot. Sure drinking can be fun, but not cool when its intricate part of lifestyle. I am turned off by slutty girls; its not so much the idea that 'oh they've been with a lot of guys', its knowing that person's perception of sexuality is disjointed from love and intimacy. I don't critize anyone for that but its a major turn off nonetheless. I prefer a girl who is caring, likes to show it, committed, honest.. Shy is ok, outgoing, mildly outgoing or non outgoing doesn't matter much to me.. Very straight forward can sometimes be a great trait but not necessary. I've found myself drawn to depressed type or girls with abuse issues and I can deal with all but one thing; they tend to have serious issues with showing appreciation through their actions to someone like me. People mentally wired to only pay attention to jerks are in need of therapy; nouf said. I don't think I'm quite the typical guy and anyone who knows me well will say I'm not. Relationships, everything.. Its all in how you deal with life, I just need someone willing to meet me half way. I believe love can exist between any two people its a matter of will, belief, perception and desire. A lot of attraction is blind and foolish, in the long run its up to you to decide who to love desire and be there for. And I'd rather be alone my whole life than live in one of the many pathetic, quasi Jerry Springer relationships I see so many people living in. That's not to say I would bail during hard times, but I prefer to deal with life without running in circles. |