San Diego County men please do no be put off by the distance. My folks live in San Diego and I visit them often. Southern Cal is open to me. How about you?

I am looking for a Gentleman strong enough in character to enjoy being with a Large and Lovely Lady of Quality. Okay, I know that sounds like I'm full of myself. I assure you I am not. I am Optimistic with Realist tendencies. I just want you to know that I am a BBW (as in Big Beautiful Woman), a fun-loving girly girl, that loves being all WOMAN! I want to Date the man that could become my Long Term. Once we both decide that's where we want to go, then I plan to take my profile off this site. Hope you would also.

You will find me happy, easy going, intuitive, compassionate and passionate, a bit unconventional (silly to some, maybe even twisted to others...hahaha!) but still sophisticated, supportive, trustworthy (my best friend says I'm honorable :)), patient and impatient, active, committed, a kind and loyal friend, organized, responsible, outgoing and involved, an eternally curious seeker, perpetually hopeful, sincere and REAL looking for REAL. It would be wonderful if you share a lot of the same traits. I am capable of being one of two working through difficulties with open, honest and respectful communication to reach mutual reconciliation.

I spend my free time being active taking in the sights (weekend getaways and long drives are faves), sailing, museums, gardening, reading, decorating projects around the house, biking or walks in beautiful relaxed settings with good company, discovering great new restaurants, making a healthy or exotic meal for or with fun company, Opus One, CdP, crisp smooth whites, great music (jazz, R&B, classical, opera, soft rock, country, world, and more), intelligent conversation, and occasionally an entertaining or thought provoking movie or play. Music and art of all types stirs my spirit. I volunteer with a local social service council. It’s very fulfilling and enriches my soul. While I am always at work on improving something about myself or my life, I am quietly confident and comfortable in my own skin. You should be as well when you contact me.

I prefer relationships that grow in Friendship, slowly at first. Then when we both decide we want more it will happen naturally and respectfully. My ideal relationship is where we both: 1) trust the other person completely; 2) highly respect one another; 3) are good friends; 4) enjoy each other’s company everyday, including constant craving of each other’s touch; 5) can naturally inspire each other to want to be the best we can be.

And for you Gents that just want an e-pal and are too afraid to come out from behind your monitor, I'm not your Gal. We e a few times, then talk on the phone. After we are both ready, we should meet. No need to drag it out for months of emails and calls only to never meet.

I'm here to eventually meet a Real Live Man that wants fun, romance, an abundance of affection and more in his daily life. You have a fair degree of integrity and call when you say you will. The stats in your profile are the same I will find when I meet you. Do you really think 10 years plus or minus on your age will not be noticable? You do not have tons of drama in your life that every time we should meet you have to give an excuse. You are on time or call when you know you are going to be late. You do not have pets that must sleep in bed with you - just not my thing. That's it. Up front and respectful is how I am. You've got to be willing to take the time and have the know-how to be in a mutually satisfying relationship with one that is capable of the same. If this is NOT you, then please pass me by.

If I've put you on my FAVs it means I think we have possibilities. If I haven't gotten around to writing you it's just because I'm wondering if you will take the lead and let me know if you are interested. I prefer a decisive man of action. ;D If I've visited your picture more than once it's just because I forgot I was there before. Don't worry. I am not a stalker. I will eventually drop you from my FAVs if...

Best wishes to us all!

First "MEET" Date: Casual and relaxing. The idea is to see if we are comfortable enough near the other's skin, and interested enough to be anxious for the "First Real" Date.

First "REAL" Date: Anywhere with the Right Man. ;)