Lets see, where to start. I am a smart-@$$, I am self sufficient, I am looking for someone I am attracted to. If I don't get back to you that means you just aren't my type. I don't really have a "type" to speak of. But you do have to have something going on upstairs besides nice hair. I work alot of hours and like to either be a total bum on my couch or spend time with friends & family when I am off(that always includes my significant other when I am seeing some one).
I have been the "giver" in every relationship I have been in, and am looking for someone who will give back and not just take. I wear my heart on my sleave and love to be in love (but who doesn't). I think intimacy is a very important part of a relationship and there must be passion.
I don't cheat, I don't hit, I don't put down. I have been called "the sweetest guy" by every woman I have ever dated. But most women tend to take that for granted. My last serious relationship lasted 7 years and ended almost 2 years ago...wow time flies. I am also not into "big women" a "few extra pounds" are ok with me, as long as it is indeed a "few extra" and not "many extra". No offense, just not what I am attracted to.
I wish everyone that is looking for love much luck. Have a great day!!! :)

OK... This has become a HUGE annoyance of mine. Having good conversation with someone for like a week, then nothing. I realize that there are indeed "Plenty of fish" but if we hit it off and all the sudden you stop talkin, well that to me is just kinda rude. So if this is something you find yourself doing often, don't messege me... and have a great day.

Also, I rescently met someone, we hit it off great. One problem, I have female friends and she was not comfortable with that. We ended before we even got a chance to start. So if you have trust issues or can't deal with me having female friends we will not work. My friends have always been there for me and I them. That will not change.

First dates are always tricky so I am open minded on this one. I would definitely like to talk a bit on the phone or online first. It's always easier to talk in person if you have a few conversations under your belt before hand.