Profiles: Love reading them when I have nothing else to do. I'm not a serial dater and living in a small city makes it difficult anyway. So when I've read my morning papers, still drinking some coffee or just bored late at night I read profiles. So please don't be offended if I've stopped by and not contacted you. Then again, maybe I'm waiting for that very elusive adventurous soul to make more than a little effort and take a chance...



I'm a great guy but far from a pushover, well a little bit of a sucker for a sweet smile.

Sometimes I travel a lot, especially Asia, a few weeks in Canada, a few different state's and still find my favorite place to be in a tropical setting near the sea...

I'm an advanced open water diver, sailor and some time artist to name just a few of my hobbies which I don't seem to spend much time enjoying as of late. "I'm missing my Muse..." I love anything to do with the ocean but I also have a great time in a country setting. I'm in my late 40s and 100 percent heterosexual male but I have never been married. I have a pretty easy going attitude, very witty, eclectic and I'm a bit of a caretaker. I've been told more than once that I am a very old soul with a young heart.

I'm a loyal person with a big heart. Though I have to admit, I've become more selective and protective over the years. I've had a few long term relationships but just haven't found the right one yet. I'm looking for a partner not a follower. If you think a romantic guy is a weak one please move on. I truly adore the romance side of a relationship.


What I tend to be attracted to in a women? Adventurous, energitic, average to thin, honesty, sense of humor, intelligence, femininity, explorative, playful, , attractive, artistic, open minded, big hearted, eccentric, esoteric with a large dose of sensuality.

Here's a riddle for you:

Builds up castles,
tears down mountains,
make some blind,
but helps others to see.
What is it?

The testimonial below is over a year old. Things just didn't work out due to timing, distance etc... Some seem to think this may be hurting my chances. I find it to be a sweet gesture by someone who got to know me a little and meet some of my friends.

Different for every person and situation...