At 50 years of age I can thus far say that I have been blessed with a fantastically caring and supportive family, several tremendous and loyal friends, a great career, and best of all the perspective and intelligence to appreciate it all. However my overall state of fulfillment and happiness has been impeded by a singular but major omission from my life. A woman. Someone to be my friend, lover and confidant. This passionate, secure, genuine, physically fit non-smoking SWM seeks a woman to pamper, spoil, share life’s experiences with and grow with. You are intelligent, optimistic, and adventuresome and tired of being alone, and playing pretentious dating games. You want a friend as well as a lover. I welcome women of all shapes and sizes, because what is far more important is your attitude, your integrity, and your enthusiasm for life.

A first date would consist of some fun and witty conversation in the atmosphere of a nice quiet restaurant while enjoying some good food and some some good wine.