Well, I know you don't like me, so I am going to do something I should have done and been completely honest, AS A MAN. I have made many mistakes when it comes to women, included breaking their hearts, cheating, lying, etc.doing whatever I could just to get in the panties, and for that, I do regret my past, and that is probably why I am paying for it now by getting rejected on numerous dating sites as well as dating in general. But I believe that I should get a second chance just like everyone else because I am living proof that people can change. I think what makes me unique, is the fact that I am willing to put it all on the line and take a risk at being rejected because I am not sorry for trying to be friendly and say hi to people, but as I have noticed as well as some of you I am sure have noticed that people are not responsive and sometime you get that feeling that you are bothering them, and to those of you if i HAVE BOTHERED YOU, or offended you in any way, I am sorry and it will not happen again, because I am happy being single and love myself and will not apologize for trying to make a new friend or two while I am on this site. I do thank those who actually take the time to respond to me.



I am a single, african american, inteligent person, whom recently is a graduate of Randolph Macon College where I majored in political science with the aspirations of one day joining the F.B.I. I have been on this site for almost three years now and still have not had much success, but as my headline says above, it is a brand new year, a year in which I refuse to chase after people because I feel that is beneath me and my character, besides, I see the same faces on my profile, and I am perfectly grateful with all the friends I have made so far, as for others, I find it funny that I have even wasted my time trying to say hi to people that do not give me the time of day, it almost seems like high school, I did not realize that so many women, or people in general walkaround still to this day with the mentality they had in high school, lol boggles my mind, but maybe things will be different in 2009, i tend to be a optimistic person, although some might think I am a bitter broken hearted man, and to those whom think that, please let the record show that my resilience speaks for itself, I constantly bounce back, I just refuse to settle for chicken headed girls, and as far as being bitter, I am coming for real, so take it for what it is.