How can I describe myself. I'm just going to do this as best as I can. The name is Hector and I'm a very attractive Puerto Rican. At least from what I'm told by some. However, most that know me call me HEC. Well I was introduced to this online dating thing by a friend, that’s the reason why I decided to give myself a trial and maybe something great could come out of it. I'm a simple guy, seriously! I don't ask for much in a relationship other than we get along and respect each other. I'm not overbearing, jealous or controlling. I'm really quite laid back. I want to have someone I respect, appreciate, and show my affection to. I guess I'm looking for mutual ground, someone who meshes well with me and will blend nicely together. I’d respect your privacy as I expect mine to be respected. I understand personal time apart is needed and I'm all about spending time with friends or you having a night out with the girls or me having a night out with the boys. I'm a very independent person and in being so, I've learned to let others be independent as well. I have been a career person for quite some time and I know I have a lot to offer a person. I'm a very loyal and honest person too. I can't stand liars or cheaters. I'm not a judgmental person by any means; I am by nature calm. I have a good sense of humor. I am easy going person with so far a good education. In women I appreciate their ability to stay optimistic, loving and decisive no matter what situation may happen. I always believed that women are the emotionaly supportive one of the family. With that, I'd want to be her hero, and be couted on for all of her needs. I am in search for an attentive, kind, honest, understanding and educated woman. I would like her to be a bit romantic with a huge sense of humor. She should be unpredictable, reliable, and extraordinary. I want to meet a woman with an open heart and be the best friend for me. I will be faithful and affectionate to her and I will support her in all life situations. Looks can be important to me on a certain level but not the only thing I look for in a woman. However, I'm not looking for someone with a tainted past (jail time, crazy ex husband or boyfriend, etc) and I'm not looking for someone just on a rebound or a casual sex type relationship. I'd like it to be simple that could turn into something more, and if not, then at least I made a friend in the process. If you think you might have something to offer, then great! If not, then that's ok too. I like to do a variety of things. I enjoy the outdoors, swimming, dancing, eating at restaurants, going to movies or staying in to watch a video. Bottom line, I'm just looking for the right person, but then again, aren't we all? If you have any questions that are not covered by what I wrote already, feel free to contact me. If you wanna E-mail me elsewhere, you can do so at this address. HTGungHo@aol.com or HTGungHo007@yahoo.com. You would find me a whole lot faster with it if I don't respond back on this site. Holla back if you want. I'd like to hear from ya. P.S. I'm sorry this site makes my pictures look crappy. I tried fixing them, but had no such luck.

For a first date, I'm pretty much ok with doing anything that would break the ice and also help you feel comfortable. Getting to know one another is important and should also be fun. Going out to dinner, to a movie, out dancing. I like the beach so we can go for a walk. Whatever is reasonable for you. After all things should be a two way street don't you think! Hope that helps you to know a little more about me.