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First off, that is NOT my tattoo in the pics below.
Second... The pup is part of the deal.
Third... I am tired of meeting psychos. I am juuuust about convinced online dating is a waste of time.

THIS REALLY GETS TO ME http://www.glumbert.com/media/dogiraq

I do like cats, but when they are banging outside, they are so loud and I can't sleep. I should let my pup scare them away.

I am not going to try to sell myself... think of this as shopping for a new car and this profile is the sticker on the window except I can be free to the right person. You can see the details and options and if you like what you see and read and take a test date... then who knows what bonds will form. I can't include as much as i'd like due to POF text limitations, but it will give you a clue of who I am. I only date one person at a time.

I wouldn't mind making a few friends on here either. My friends tend to just want to go to bars or sit home and that is not my idea of having fun in life.

I think it's time I seek an someone yet again who doesn't feel a need to mess around, lie, and play games.
I have a very good idea of the person I want.

I am a fun-loving explorer of life, And how great it can be since life is beautiful. However, I have a vibrant sense of humor and am realistic about how crazy life can get at times. Over all, I am an optimistic person who gives anyone a chance until they prove they don't deserve one. Honesty is the only way to live a happy life and I am both happy and honest. I love women & music more than anything. You either like me or you don't, and I never try to impress since I am me... People seem to like my carefree spirit once they get to know me as a friend or a close acquaintance. I could be a really good friend, it's all up to you how that goes. I am a patriotic American, but I DO NOT follow blindly as most do.

I tend to not like verbosity, rather I would like to have such a connection that few words as possible are spoken. I had that once in life with a friend... we can just look at each other and know what the other was thinking. I am easy to get along with, typically I can get along with females easier. I guess they sense I am not always out for one thing. I enjoy good conversations. I like to ponder the mysteries of life. I love the city, but I also like the thought of solitude of a cabin deep in the woods on a snowy day... Never had a need for drugs and plan to keep it that way.
I have not turned on my TV in over 3 years (I do watch some in work, but just because it's on), and I feel I am better off without it.

I do not like people who TyPe lYke Dis
I do not like slow drivers in the passing lane
I do not like people who fail to use their minds
I do not like games... Yes, I'm a guy who wants a serious LTR, but good and fun friends will do as well.
I do need time for myself sometimes. I like spending time with someone, but it can be come too much for me early on. I need some time to think about what is going on.
I am not into those who HAVE to show just boobs in the majority of photos for a few reasons.
One, It seems that there may be nothing above those to attract me (Brains, wit, humor...)
Two, (shallowness alert) I am more attracted to hips and butts, so I can care less about them.:) NOT interested in Paris Hilton-like looks or attitudes.

Most times I am overly tolerant and care waaaay more than I should, and it does come back to bite me in the ass most times. But, that is my nature and I cannot change that part of me... I just have to find someone who can respect that.

I dislike materialistic people. It can tell a lot about them.
I HATE greedy people.
I want someone who is stable and doesn't change with the seasons (ask me about that if you wish)

I love helping people.
I love being outdoors.
I LOVELOVELOVE to cuddle/snuggle. (And everyone loves the way I do too. Not that I get to do it often, but try it and see :) ) Worries just seem to melt away and all feels right in the world when I get to snggle.
I love kissing (found that out recently)
I love to laugh and be my comedic self. (I can have you laughing at times till you are crying from tummy pains)
I love hanging out with my different groups of friends and sit back and chat about days gone by... it's a safe bet you will get a great laugh out of some of the stories of me.
I am very upfront with everything and volunteer information just to let a person feel more secure.
I like people who can have fun outdoors (if you have a drink in your hand in almost every picture inside or a club/bar, you are probably not for me. I do enjoy to go out, but I realize there is a lot more to life to enjoy.)
I go to Manhattan and Philly a lot to catch some live bands playing (That you will not hear on the radio sadly). Friends of mine can be so lame that I go alone most times... If you are interested in being a friend to join me, that is fine as well. Just let me know and we will see if our music styles clash or connect.


I think I am more attracted to an older woman, yet I have never dated one past a friend... I want someone who can understand who I am and see where my unique character lies...
And no matter what, she MUST be smart and be able to hold a deep and complex conversation. I like to talk about very random things at times.


I have been growing in my hair for Locks Of Love, and it is coming time to have it all cut off soon and make a kid smile. (Cut it off and sent out 2/5/08)

I was, until recently, in the process a home (I am still caught up in trying to get out as of 2/7) until someone helped me realize that it can make things harder for a single guy looking for a relationship as it would place major limits on how far one would travel... So I decided to hold off and save.

I want children one day... So much that I have been having money deducted each paycheck for a college fund for them since I was 23.
If you KNOW you NEVER want kids... you are not for me.

My dog is part of the deal. She is a tough lil critter to have like you, so if she does, you must be special.

What am I attracted to? She can be thick. She can be thin, but not to the point I see ribs. She MUST be smart, loyal, loving and be able to have fun & enjoy life out of doors and want to get to know my unique mind.

I will hardly ever make first contact on this site even if I am interested. I think if someone finds me interesting, they are on the same level as I and would not have a problem contacting me.

I'm not your average male whom you cannot trust. I do however, need s

mys pace.com/closetgeekwithacoolstreak

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& seems to be the norm, but I am always willing to try something else we can think of.


Please, don't add me to your list without saying at least "hi". You must have good intentions, but I do delete people from it. I don't bite, unless you want me to (If) I do the same thing, it's because I am short on time and use that to come back to the person later)

Summer is almost here, so I will be having my fun times at random places. Care to join me? Adventurers always welcome.

I really want to have a picnic in Central Park one day... Does that help?

(Something I found on the net)
"A Pisces man is never ever mean. However, at times, he may say something, which turns out to be quite different from what he intended . He is totally dependable and you can trust him with your darkest secrets.

He is a very good listener and people always come to him to discuss all their major and minor problems. When he is with you, try not to burden him more with your tensions too. Throughout the day, he has been listening to other people's troubles and the way he is, he would have absorbed all those negative energies. Now, when he is with you, he needs to get all of this out of his system and rejuvenate himself. Piscean men have such an empathetic disposition that they need to rest every now and then, to bring back the calmness and steadiness.

If they want to be left alone, they should not be disturbed. Closeness and togetherness is good, but let them have their moments of solitude . Give them the space they desire and the heart will only grow fonder. A Pisces man is very sensitive and can get hurt very easily. He appears to be confident of himself, but on the inside, he is painfully shy. He needs to know that you appreciate him, care for him and love him. He has a very quick temper, but the anger subsides as quickly as it comes.

He will never remain angry for a very long time and will seldom hold a grudge. He has the ability to see right through people's outer layer and that makes it very difficult to fool him. On the other hand, he can fool you if he wants and such situations will arise frequently, since he likes to keep his own affairs to himself. A Piscean man may speak a small lie once in a while. This is because he has some secret fear of revealing all about himself. However, you don't need to worry, as these lies will always be completely harmless and help keep his imagination running."