I have so far met some classic nutcases,
I guess its been amusing and an adventure, and many other women here have told me of them running into some odd stuff with males, so its just a sign of the times.

I have deliberatly kept myself single for 3 years and not liking much i have so far encountered, and still old fashioned in relationship values of coupleship...im not interested in occasional relationships, although ok with a live together or live apart relationship...kids are fine as they are just as important as before you meet a man and should stay that level of importance...My main relationship of the past was 16 years marriage with 3 kids whom now live with the mother...im easy to communicate with and quite intellegent. IM JUST AN ORDINARY PERSON SEEKING SAME IN A WOMAN.
NOVEL : Internet DATING STORIES AND TRENDS
Read this only at your own choice, don't complain its a novel as it says it was before you started.
IN THE LAST 2 YEARS NOT THE NET, BUT PEOPLE, HAVE GONE HORRIBLY WRONG, and the new trends are causing both sides to fail, this is why most on dating sites are there almost full time, or constantly returning, even those like one site whom had outstanding looks, and the person herself was of poorest human quality and intellect, very bland, thus no quality, though oddly she is a quality assurer by trade.

So looks are nothing, all it does is attract the average male "myself excluded" from getting into their panties.
People will meet someone, connect well, and desire to meet in real, but still show as chatting to many others, thus toyboy shopping, shopping thus shoppers online are persons whom continue to seek more and more, have cake and eat too.

When noticed, it turns the other off, then they start accusations of jealousy and possessive etc, poor fools. Then many with no profile pictures demanding other sex must have pic, well a survey I did, shows most whom hide pics, 98% were not attractive at all, and same lame excuses used, however, if ugly, put ur pic up so u know whomever responds must find it ok,,,just be patient, there's an ass for every seat...MOST PEOPLE are touchy about being addicted to net sites because they feel odd not being able to get people in real life, now, that is their inner self doubts, and need to have a smarter mind on the realities of that difference.
Unlike MALES whom rarely carry over baggage unless unmanly girlyboy types, many Women carry far too much baggage in self destructive manner but go into denial, this might not be you, but direct survey found 95% CARRY OVER BAGGAGE TO OTHERS, most often past partners traits, past tragic incidents, past sexual or violent incidents, and additional to this, the way they deal with such, creates new ways of treating partners in which is argumentive and destructive, and most end up like a gender war male versus female, females trying the independence and dominance role, not realising these are genetic in men not as they try, via acting it out as a gender role..the males let it occur and humor it so as they keep the path into their panties but start shopping for a replacement in that interim.
TOYBOY SHOPPING TRAP
In real life most don't have the nerve to just go chat to strangers or don't wish to look cheap, therefore online breaks that barrier too freely, the trap.... So online suddenly there's thousands all doing this to and fro and suddenly women find themselves swamped by thousands of men not realising hmmm why isn't this happening in public in real life on the streets...lol blond moments....and why are everyone shopping for far more than one when the addiction of excessive choices appears? and they all go for looks only, but as described about quality controller, looks are nothing but a mere mask, and often more likely to be used and only liked for the looks not the person.
and why are they still on date sites or continue to return with yet another hard luck story???
oh too many of them from women, and as a male I too can tell of many odd balls..
So at this point, the law of averages says its likely you do the following useless pastime.
Online often in dating sites and msn etc, constantly looking for more and more and better and better, so many offers you think the Mr perfect model is there somewhere for you and that he will treat you like a queen, the fairytale crap you already saw does not exist, and in the interim u string other poor people along until a better looking one arrives but pretend its their intellect not their looks, the smokescreen of the truth...BUT, many women surveyed, stated the meetings with these perfect men were a disaster, and most were fake etc, so where was the screening process ?
ok here are a few examples of real cases.
EXEC female, chairwoman and other role, states she is better than most people and dated a male, and such allegedly intelligent woman did not look too bright when telling me her date turned up and was totally toothless, hahaha great screening and great chairwoman boardroom pic of that couple smiling lol, truth is i think she was just an ordinary shop attendant.
Another, went all the way from one side of town to the other and way out to geelong by train too, only to find the man she chose was massively overweight and not as in picture, so such long trip and excitement because no homework done..
Another, met a man whom rang his mum about everything everyday including about them, lol now such person is neither male or female, and as u can figure that failed on her..MOST WOMEN and many men put up primary pics of old photo's and the recent ones if part honest as secondary pics, so u see the lure then get in profile and see the more recent wrinkled or obese ones, so immediately you know the person is prepared to deceive for their own gain, but why not put up the latest...
Many in online dating are still casually tied to an ex and quite a few are still partnered and looking for flings but don't declare it...
Women are saying they like to hear nice things, men kno now to say nice things without meaning them, and know most women fall for it, thus honest people like me will feel like a liar saying rare nice things...but words are easy sed, in fact harder to say bad things, but then u kno you found a open honest person, as long as they are

CONTINUED: as long as they are close to accurate...Recently, I met a schizo, lol was great all day until she ran to meds late, then sed after, people don't like her anymore when they know what the meds are for, then kabooom yup the schizoid persona emerged due to meds being late, again not declared no matter how smart you check people out...
Most female profiles are like copy paste of the next with no idea what men seek to find in profiles..
we don't like women labeling us like their ex baggage's of possessive , jealous, negative, flirts, inside panty seekers, and I love this one, CONTROLLERS..these women often have the initial theme wrong let alone attributing it to everyone.
If your cheap and easy you will flirt and try many at once, and be used.
If your seeking a stable old style relationship then learn from some of the above as u cant commit without committing ,,that's obvious...and useless using past baggage, and very lucky males don't do the same as often too...
LOOK FOR A PRIOR LONG ENDURING RELATIONSHIP that's the very best guide one can use for potential long term persons ENDURANCE, such as my 16 year marriage, thus I know what endurance means and involves...be sure if you not going to later seek better lookers, make sure what you choose is tolerable,,,look for someone whom does not just say all nice things,,good people are not like that, good people will mix openly the good with the bad,,not be afraid to pick u up on something..
Look for good conversation ability as couple spend much time together.
I have met people online or by phone and got on great, but they all continued in dating sites after it so I saw the type of person they are, but not one would say hey im not interested...the good thing is, I like that because I can judge their worthlessness rather than find out later...the shopper effect of the net is a massive addiction, but whilst they shop, get fooled and used, their life goes by wasted, then in desperation they settle for ones they don't want during a lonely moment,,,then they try look up people like me.