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I am looking for an on going exclusive friendship that includes companionship, real affection ( not just sex) and ultimately a loving long term relationship.

I am a funny, smart and attractive female looking for a special someone.
I have been single for a long time and would like the company of someone who can make me laugh and carry on a decent conversation. I am easy to talk to and a good listener. I like romantic comedy movies and most types of music - except rap?..
I have done some serious revamping of my life over the last few years. I am always looking for ways of improving myself....and I would expect that of the man who would be my partner in life...I need someone who can challenge my way of thinking, with healthy and calm debate not arguing or yelling about it.....and I need to laugh ...I do it all the time but I need a man who can keep me laughing most of time time but who knows when its time to be serious too......I am an ex-smoker and a social drinker so I must warn you that if you do smoke you won't be able to when you are with me....

I am not a barbie doll, nor will I ever be. But if you are a walker/hiker, I would love to join you - but be gentle with me......its been a while.....and YES we are still talking about walking.........although.......!!

I do possess a wacky sense of humour so be prepared.........a normal conversation can easily turn into something else...........lol

I need complete honesty - total openness - not that I want to know all your secrets right away ...but if its something I should know about...bring it on!! My life has not been a bed of roses either. So called baggage is a badge of honour - remove the baggage and you deny your past - that of course is my personal opinion. However I try not to dwell on the past ...well not too much anyway. Deep hurts take time to heal properly - it takes kindness and understanding as well.

I am a lover not a fighter - I prefer to discuss things openly without anger if at all possible - if issues are talked about early enough there is usually no need for anger to be apart of it.


I am simply looking for butterflies!!

I live in Hamilton - on 'the mountain'....and I have officially become an empty nester and I am liking that!

If you like what you have read so far.....contact me. I am not adverse to making that first move .

Borrowed from another profile but I think says it all...

"A real man is difined by what's in his heart, and not by what's in his pants"

I am sincere in what I say in my profile and I am as honest as the day is long - but I will not say 'how high' when someone says 'jump'....I will make the decisions about how and who and when and where contact is made - just because some have been hurt by players does not mean that we are all like that. One must be a little patient in this endeavour - if not you will scare away a potential match - just my two cents here.

Somewhere quiet with a touch of romantic.......where we can talk easily, get to know one another .....dinners, lunches, dancing can come later.......

Williams on the waterfront and then a walk around that pier. Or Thai food at Lemongrass.....yummy!