Wow..here we are in the world of online dating..I miss the days of meeting a girl at the mall or at the skating rink..this is too much like work..or buying a car..going through the profiles, looking at pics, reading all the likes and dislikes, looking at who viewed you and wondering why they didn't send you a message..is it because I'm fat,skinny,ugly,too short,too tall,or is it that I look like an ex that really pissed them off..who knows..well I have learned that relationships are in fact WORK..probably the toughest job you'll ever have..some people say it shouldn't be..but if you go into it thinking that its gonna be like a vacation you'll be on these sites forever..I have also learned that Communication, honesty and Communication are the keys at least for me in a relationship..tell me what you want, what you need, when you need it, how you want it, (no not just sex)and I'll see if I can accomplish any if not all of them..but we guys gotta know what IT is..most guys don't know what really makes their wife/girlfriend happy..we're usually just playing darts in the dark, hoping we at least get close to the board..and the IT for you women is always changing..so us guys are not only playing darts in the dark, but on a moving dart board..so tell us so we know.. and if we can't handle it, hey, saves us all a lot of wasted time..its like the old saying all guys are dogs..it's true we are..if you don't show a dog where to eat, sleep, and #@*&, he'll do it all over the place..even on you..we need to be trained and sometimes retrained...and women are the cats..if you want to hear about that you'll have to email me..sorry