it should be noted that most days i tend to scare people away .. well it's not me that scares them away it's the truth that does that, i'm just the messenger.. so please don't shoot me down to soon.. give this guy a chance..lol..and if your the type that likes to see things as they are or are open to other's perceptions and opinions then we will get along fantastically..

..well, here is to hoping that we all connect with the right ones, good luck to us all
i have to say that this profile over the years has been quite the buddist excersise in self awareness.. it's been challenging, amusing and very interesting to re-write this, time and time again..! goes to show we are all very complicated yet simple individuals..

hey i've been told so many times that i'm very compassionate(most times to much for my own good and so i'm slowly teaching myself to recognize when/how to help others while not hurting myself in the process)
i'm tall, slim, cute and oh so sweet..
makes me wonder why am i still single when
most women say they want a compasionate tall, slim, cute and sweet guy?
lol..go figure eh! oh ya might be because i can also be an ass (i'm so not..a buddy reminded me that i'm more like ..kermit the frog remember ..in the muppet show..ahh ha i'm to nice..that has to be it..! )
for me it's all about the partnership, compatability, connection, mutual beneficial things we could do for each other, to each other, with each other, etc.. to mutually better ourselves...modern yet old fashion partners in a partnership ..all the while retaining our individuality and respect.
it's interesting that my bohemian outlook on life tends to attract the older than myself, well established, financially very well off women in there 40's50's that want to pay my bills, etc.. it seems that they have much more assertiveness "go get" in wanting a relationship with me.. than those in there 20's30s that i am really physically attracted to ..! (it's quite puzzling..!)

..i've now emailed a few poeple that i would be interested in meeting ..ah but a-lase responses are few and far apart.. oh woh is me..lol.. i am waiting for you to email me or if you are one of the very few i've emailed, thank you for kindly, respectfully responding

description
i am a cards on table , go with the flow kinda guy
naturaly born male ..lol now a days it's a good thing to mention..lol..
all natural surgury free very young looking,
young at heart sweet heart
i'm told very good looking.. although that opinion varies from person to person..lol..,
country and city lover,
love animals (i have two loving dogs, tundra 10yr old siberian husky, maggy 4yr old colie mix)

life outlook smile don't worry be open respectful thankful happy and good things will come in do time bohemianism lifestyle..including partly self imposed financial poverty(hey to each his/her own) and so i am very frugal, inventive, love to maximize usages and minimize costs to the environment.. and certainly not cheap..lol.... there is quite a diffence !
such as i'll spend wisely the $$$ when i have it and it will go a really long way.. like insulating the hot water tank, optimizing usage of an item, repairing improving things, making huge amount oven baked beans, massive pea soup, ham slices and eggs, shredded ham stir fry rice, other soups and much more with the purchase of a 30$ ham and so on..oh ya..yes i can cook..lol..
born a frenchy here in ottawa and now bilingual,
comfortable anywhere with anyone in anything..
in jeans, construction boots(so comfy), office suit, tux, nude lol whatever..
wide scope of interest enjoy construction, demolition, repairs, art, law, science, tech, ethics, etc..
person of routine yet also very spontaneous
love good happy fun easy adaptable surprises and or change,
prefer being comfy over troubled,
calm inner self
fun positive outlook on things
nice and slim, creative, fixer type,
generous but selective,carefree yet like organisation,
imaginative, adventurous, caring,
quite smart intelligent resourceful with ditzy moments oh well,
love reading but prefer movies, can be intense but prefer easygoing,
37 year old
autodidact,
somewhat selectively forgetful if it's not fun or low kazaam impact i forget argh i just plain need my mind to be jogged properlly,
somewhat eccentric and low key
minimalistic(nearly empty bathroom, bedroom, kitchen and the rest is all storage space'ish, entertainment, hobby/work shop, etc....lol)
extra easygoing lifestyle yet sometimes to busy work/hobbyahoolic,
some say packrat'ish tendensy but i prefer pragmatic outlook with things,
artistic, gooffy, idealist yet accepting realist,
simplistic in my complexity and complicated in my simplicity
intensity and moderation it's all good go with the moment and enjoy
..ying & yang.. chicken or egg ..LOL.. etc etc etc...

Seeking you ask... well..seeking similar person in female form
personality is the most important part for me .. then i fear yes and as important are the looks.. tall short ..it's no perticular preference to me..i admit to being attracted to the naturally slim healthy sweet country/city 20's to 30's, french, causasian, jap, phil, etc., whatever it's the character and connection that counts..

..lol.
in a few twisted wide spectrum yet alternate surprisingly hopefully graspable way of saying it above all

..i'm seeking that elusive similar warm embodied tactile quantifiable positive wavelength complimentary bright colorful feel good vibrating stable powerful safe energy frequency connection

..in a techky goofy scifi way ..seeking proof.. the existance of a plenty of fish fusion reaction..! lmao !

..in a romantic way.. seeking my long lasting long awaited perfect soulmate connection ..?

..in tv movie land way.. seeking mutual happy ever after
etc...


...tweeked your curiosity and interest..? ;)

you ..me.. available ..hey go figure ! good things are on there way!

..lol..it's no biggy , no rush , no fuss, lol.. yup let's start with an email!
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(if you have been added to someone's favorite list.. do contact them..they must be interested in hearing from you.) :) i know i will contact those that fav list me
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more you ask.. usually candid and straight forward (humanistic, ideolistic, hedonistic, altruistic, hippyistic, bohemianistic, etc..)
so brace yourself(tactfullness is an art i've somewhat yet to master)..lol..

when it comes to selling myself and this profile .. it's laughable .. no? ! lol..

.. people that know me usually say that i am to humble..!

it's really up how we connect and what we make of it and some luck..
we could leave it to chance and see what we come to agree on at the last minute..
or plan ahead and ...
- go for a walk in a city park , the ncc woods, gatineau park, all while chatting and gooffing around followed by a warm hot coco while takin a dip in my jacuzzi
..all depends on how it all goes ..!
- staying in cuddling watching a movie and having popcorn with my two dogs
- go for bike ride and a surprise picnic(ok not so surprise after all..lol),
- evening drive in the country side visiting a petting farms and a drive in movie
- sunday flea marketing french fries in hand hunting for that elusive deal and getting to know each other's interest
- cross country skiing stopping to make snow angels and having hot coco followed by a camp fire in the yard
- taking my two dogs for a walk and certainly yours if you have some also :)
- etc. etc. etc...