Myself I go out of my way to help others. I am the type of person who will bring a large bowl of potato salad at a BBQ, not a bag of chips. ( On that note, if you have seen a yellow lid tupperware bowl please let me know. I guess I see why everyone else brings chips.) If one of my friends needs help I say yes first before I look at my planner.( Which is not always a smart thing when you have two places to be at the same time across town.) I don't drop and run when I put my kids in sports ( But I try not to give eye contact when the sign up sheet for 50/50 goes around.) I try to look at the positive side instead of the negative. (the glass is half full unless its a hot day and its cold beer) And I always have a smile on my face.( Especially after the beer. ) I've been told I am bit of a smart ass, ( still not talking to that ass. ) I love my life and I don't feel I have to have a relationship to survive.( I know how to change a tire, with heels I might add.) but I would love to share some time with someone special. ( the loving way not you know, one who needs a bib.)

hmmm...What am I looking for, lets see. Someone who is happy with their life, and is not looking for someone to change them or take care of them, ( the bib thing again ) but to join them in their future. He is secure with who he is but open minded for bettering himself.( say your sorry if your an ass always helps ) Loves to help others without exspecting to be paid back. ( the old lady crossing the road won't be around for long ) Oh ya and he has a truck. ( ah hell been on this site for a while okay as long as its not a mini.)
I am 5'10" so he needs to be tall so when I wear any heels, he is actually looking into my eyes..(they're blue). A sense of humour is a must.( don't think you would survive with me if you didn't ) Someone who enjoys camping and getting dirty and content with just hanging out by the lake. But also enjoys getting dressed and going out on the town. Loves a good loud concert (in my truck ) but also likes a quiet night in front of a fire.
I have two kids that I share with my ex, so when I am not playing with them I would love to play with someone who is full of life as much as my kids.(over the age of 30 and doesn't wear a bib or will be in the next ten years.)

So if you find yourself sitting in front of the t.v. and would rather be hanging out with someone on too much coffee..I am your girl..LOL...

Getting a coffee and going down to the beach would be a great first date. Your on the move without feeling like your on a job interview. If it feels right maybe dinner and than well it all depends..