... in central NJ.
Am an easy-going, professional. Southern gentleman type (but living in NJ for almost 20 years - so no bumpkin!).

Love the outdoors - hiking, biking, kayaking, skiing, the beach, you name it. Also play alot of basketball. Like to stay active. Like great music, live is best, also like being in the city occasionally and just experiencing the night life, resturants, etc.

The kind of woman I'm interested in meeting is warm, feminine, in decent shape, fun, likes to be active and explore, have a nice sense of humor, is intelligent, playful and is not needy (has her own interests, goals and achievements) - can be a pamperer, but also independent.

First date... keep it simple, a coffee shop, light conversation, maybe alittle desert to peck at while finding out more about each other and seeing what we have in common...