Id like to meet someone who stands on their own two feet and would like to share lifes adventure without having to be lead or followed ALL the time..Im not too picky about friends, I can be a good friend to anyone but I have to have an attraction with someone I would consider dateing,,People say that that can grow,, I beleave it has to be there from the start. I find it funny when you go to write someone whos checked your profile only to get the your too old or wrong gender or live too far away page responce for them to except a letter, why would they have looked in the first place? Ive been single a while and dont like games but even in here it seems to be what people like too do, posting ads and live in russia, well say you live in russia. Im not going to send money to support you there or evne if your stranded in south africa because you went to visit your sick mother after you start wit you have no family. Just lookin g for someone real and without a truckload of mental or relationship problems.. Is there anyone out there..??????

first dates are tricky since if they go poorly they dont open the door to a second date. I suppose id have to have some knowledge of the other person so as to not choose something they couldnt stand. You know like not taking a vegetarian to a steak house.