I enjoy the satisfaction of positively impacting peoples lives. I am very focused on my career path and that drives me everyday. Cooking relaxes me. I find good food spawns (fish reference)good conversation. I'm a big fan of gooood conversation, it stimulates me (so hair twirlers need not apply). I like the atmosphere of good lighting, good vibes, good music, secenery, things of this nature. I'm real easy going and love to laugh.

I like people to feel comfortable (atmosphere again) so I would either do something of the other persons interest, or take control so that that person can be at ease knowing that i'm taking care of everything. I try to be receptive to other people's needs. I think that first dates are good for conversation, getting to be less strangers and more friends. So for at least part of the date try to be somewhere not so noisy for this purpose. I will illustrate the simple date equation below dentoting the noisy portion of the date with a (N) and the quiet portion with a (Q).

Dinner (Q) + Concert (N)= good time
Walk (Q) + Movie (N)= good time
Art museum (Q) + Theater (N)= good time
BBQ (Q) + NASCAR (N)= Alka Seltzer Its not that hard if you break it down