I am a leader, not a follower. I seek passion and the truth. I exercise regularly, but I am not a gym rat. Basically, an intelligent romantic looking for my soulmate. She must be sensual, funny, thoughtful, and enjoy life. I am very attracted to intelligent, confident woman. She must be a leader in her own right, stable and take responsiblity for her decisions. Smarts, sensuality, compassion, honesty,and a sense for adventure are essentials quailities. Smart is sexy. Please no married women.

First dates are just to break the ice. Can we laugh, have a conversation, and hopefully want to see each other again. I would like to take a drive or walk, have lunch or dinner, and simply talk. "Take it slow" is the important thing. Neither of us should feel insure or desperate to make a connection. If the chemistry is there we'll both know it.