GREAT CATCH for GREAT GUY 
SEARCHING "DEEPER WATERS!" Quit smoking by Christmas '08 ... or BUST! Yes, I am looking for positive and permanent changes in my life! (Yes, it's no typo; I am 6'0")
So,
who is willing to work hard, enjoy life, and make a great future as a team effort?
Who is ready for real maturity?
~ WISDOM ~ SPIRITUAL ~ PASSIONATE ~ LOOKING FOR SAME!How does a BBW find a loving guy, who has a passion for God and is moderately conservative?
He may just have to come find me!!! I know you're out there! SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY PLEASE.
I am beyond shallowness, looking for the REAL DEAL:
I selected "friendship," but ultimately a LTR would be great!. . .
It depends on who I find. I strongly believe in FRIENDS FIRST! After all... LOVE DUST BLINDS!
There is a guy somewhere who is appropriate for a LTR... it might just be you!
LOL... I'm SANE & STABLE! While I am FAR from perfect, I am getting better all the time
because I am a work in progress!
I tend to be introspective, goal-oriented and financially disciplined.
Compassion and passion along with spirituality, and a no-nonsense approach is what I am about. . . .
God comes first in my life... He helps make relationships something to be cherished dearly.
I have bad girl moments, but overall I am a good girl...
My beliefs are Bible-based (I enjoy study) and non-denominational.
I am value driven, honest and open, almost to a fault... You should be too.
My kids are grown, and I'd love to get out and have a good time.
ABOUT YOU...
In and IDEAL world... I'M LOOKING FOR: TALL, Hot & Handsome... ***GRIN***
BUT, since there is more to life than immediate gratification, AND since I am value driven...
..... Emotional/Spiritual maturity & financially sound a must! Qualities I look for are Humble, Self-disciplined, Intelligent/educated, and respectful. A good conversationalist.
Being responsible and accountable, and motivated are some of the qualities that are important to me.
Overall, a casual, easy-going guy... but one who can spiff up for the finer times in life as well.
My match will LOVE GOD and put his relationship with HIM FIRST, seeking to be led by God's will... not legalistic in nature.
Don't think you HAVE TO BE PERFECT...there is NO SUCH THING;
But I do hope my gentleman friend is striving to be the best he can be.
I do believe that honor, chivalry and gentlemen still exist.Ultimately,
I am looking for a like-minded believer who is down-to-earth
. . . with whom I can share love
. . . . . . . . . .on a multitude of levels.
SOULMATE defined: Teamwork: Mutual respect... earned and deserved! No game-playing or manipulation... openness.
Honest, forthright and transparent. Both able to talk about weaknesses and be able to work on them in good faith.
...each of us has strengths and we should "synergize." Interdependence. Balance. Passion for life.
Of the same World View:.. spiritual like-mindedness... Loves the Bible and study together or with others.
Enjoys personal growth. Goal-oriented within the relationship, and in life...
Putting effort and concern into our relationship AND life: motivated to succeed...not complacent.
Discerning, but not judgmental. Loving/giving, but not a doormat. Mutuality - submit to one another...(Eph 5:21)
Laughs together, and maybe at each other... but never with a mean spirit.
I DISLIKE: Arrogance, Control Freaks, Rap, Opera, NASCAR, male-chauvinists (women are not second-rate citizens),
Irresponsibility and lack of accountability... Active addictions or major co-dependents (be working on your issues please).
Closed-mindedness, judgmental hearts, Immaturity & lack of wisdom, Inconsiderate Bas*****,
Many of the things on T.V., DRAMA addicts...I don't like soap operas on T.V. or in real life!
I have grown up and am moving far away from that insanity!
I also dislike Parasitic Opportunists: Users & Abusers (physical or emotional).
IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON, BUT
BEING THE RIGHT PERSON TOO.
I have several favorite sayings...
1) What's right is not always popular, and what's popular is not always right.
2) What's good for you may not be good for me.
3) I work to live, I do not live to work...(not a work-a-holic)
4) If you resent someone, it's like you drinking poison expecting the other person to die.
5) The more I learn, the more I realize how much I don't know!
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IF YOU DON'T STAND FOR SOMETHING, YOU'LL FALL FOR ANYTHING!7) Well behaved women seldom make history...
8) If you can't say something nice... why say anything at all?
9) Psalms 25:4-5 (GREAT VERSES!) I have them memorized - good for the soul!
Congratulations if you have made it to this point, but you apparently have way too much spare time on your hands- you may want to get a hobby. . . Should I make it into a mini-series? I am accepting votes!
Seriously tho, I wanted to be thorough enough to give you an idea as to who I am. If anything intrigued you, feel free to send a wink or email.
Until then, have a great day!
Anything...to me, the more REAL the first meeting is...the more likely the relationship is to succeed because it shows the REAL me and the REAL you, not a facade of pretend charactors. I guess the biggest thing is, I don't like to call the first meeting a "date." The word DATE has so many negative connotations... it is uncomfortable and anxiety provoking my my opinion. Besides, traditionally, two people usually meet and see each other FIRST, and they then form an opinion as to whether another meeting is in order. That is how I see it...it is just a meeting, to see if both WANT to have a date... if that makes sense. Frankly, I'd like to just THROW OUT THE WORD "DATE." Getting rid of that word would remove a lot of the stress of it all!!!
I must admit, even though I may have a tendency to be a tom-boy at times, I am still a woman with a heart who would dearly love to be cared about by a gentleman. There is something to be said for "putting your best foot forward," and "good first impressions." So dressing sharp is what can make it fun! I remember, as ZZ-Top put it: "Every Girl's Crazy 'Bout a Sharp Dressed Man!!!" So, once we've decided to continue to meet...I believe a comedy club would be fun... and then go somewhere quiet and get to know each other better...and laugh about the evening...
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