Here's what I'm looking for in a man. Do you qualify?

- A Christian
- A gentleman
- Somewhat conservative
- Somewhat old fashioned
- Positive
- Patient
- Loyal, trustworthy, and monogamous
- Appreciative of and enjoys life's simple pleasures
- Financially stable
- Emotionally stable
- Hard worker / smart worker
- Supportive, giving, caring
- Good with kids
- Good sense of humor
- Active in the community, leadership, and youth activities
- Absence of a criminal history


This should give you a good start. What it basically boils down to is that I would like to find a decent guy who can hold an intelligent conversation and knows how to treat a woman with respect. The old fashioned part comes into play when opening doors, taking time to get to know someone, defending honor, manners, etc. It seems like the only men left who know about any of this are 65+ yrs old. Surely there are younger men who have been raised right somewhere out there.

I'm very much into youth sports and activities. Softball, basketball, baseball, football, and youth wrestling fills a lot of my time. I also like reading and listening to history, biography, motivational, inspirational, and self improvement books / audio. I prefer someone who is familiar with living in and enjoying the country. I like to fish, camp, garden, photography, and hikes. I like to jump in the car and take a drive for no reason other than to enjoy the beauty and peacefulness of the countryside. Or maybe stop everything we're doing and enjoy a quiet summer night outside by a bonfire with a fresh baked pie, coffee and perhaps a spike to the coffee.

I am not interested in Harleys, nascar, water sports, world wide travel, bar scene, heavy metal music, liberals, or "spiritual" people.

I am not interested in a guy who cannot separate himself from his mother or has a lot of family / personal / exwife / exgirlfriend drama. A man must be able to determine where his dedication lies.

This shouldn't be difficult. Either you're a good guy who will understand and relate to this profile or you're completely clueless but will send a message to me anyway assuming that none of this really matters. (hint: if you're clueless, don't bother).

Maybe a chat at a coffee shop, a drink at a sports bar, or an activity that spurs conversation such as walking through and looking at things at a sporting and home show or even an auction. I'm not big into sitting down for an interview because people tend to give interview responses. I guess we'd know the best first meeting after taking the time to get to know each other online first.