| Llolla :
love transforms me |
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| City |
Cottonwood Heights Utah |
| Area |
United States |
| Ethnicity |
Caucasian |
| Sign |
Leo |
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Height | 5' 0" (152 cm)
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| I am Seeking a |
Man
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Who is Looking
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Long Term |
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| Smoker? |
No |
| Do you drink? |
No |
| Marital Status |
Widowed |
| Profession |
mostly retired professional |
| Smarts |
PhD / Post Doctoral |
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| Do you want children? |
Undecided/Open |
| Do you do drugs? |
No |
| Do you have children? |
No |
| Do you have a car? |
Yes |
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| | About Me |
| | Ready to begin a new phase in life. I have almost too many choices, but my heart's desire is to share the big decisions and little pleasures with a partner, who is my favorite person, best friend, center of my universe, the guy who is there early every morning and every night. I am looking for the love of my life.
Elizabeth Barrett wrote to Robert Browning. "How do I love thee? Let me count the ways." Intelligent female seeks caring man to whisk me to Italy to bask in the sun with poets and artists. Or maybe to a beach in Mexico, or the back deck to watch the sunset.
Like Elizabeth Barrett, I have some extraordinary strengths and some physical challenges. I don't want to jump off cliffs or out of airplanes, and I am not thrilled by motorcycles and guns. Much more interested in a guy who is interested in ideas, or his career, or handy around the house, or cooks once in a while, or likes a drive up the canyon. Artistic types get my attention. I like hot tubs, horses, the tram at Snowbird. Even a friendly, funny couch potato with a guitar, to have indoor adventures with. I am interested in life and people and improving the world. Not that I wouldn't like to travel and do something fabulous with the rich and famous but I can be as happy at home. More interested in someone to come home to--the rest is a plus.
I thought I had a simple outlook on life, but must be fairly complicated after all--do not like really messy people or cigarette smoke or alcoholics. I am not into taking financial or health risks. NO DRUGS. NO ONE NIGHT STANDS. NO MARRIED MEN--NOT GOING TO BE THE OTHER WOMAN. I can support myself, but have no respect for an able-bodied man who wants to mooch, or to complain that I am too busy working if he won't pick up some expenses so I can slow down. Looking for a fair balance on those issues. And no polygamists looking for a second wife. Is there an open-minded non-drinker out there?
My idea of social drinking is occasional light drinking. That is okay with me and I can join in. Although I am basically a non-drinker and am comfortable with the same. But when I say non-drinker I run into too many people who are alcoholics who say they are not drinking but can't maintain, or religious fanatics looking for a second wife while they still have the first one. Any religion is okay if you are okay with me not necessarily believing it all. Personally, I belong to the Church of Stand by Your Man and would be supportive of a person's belief as long as it was not hazardous to him, me, or others.
I am a product of everything in my life. I want to take the good, leave the negative baggage behind, not recreate it. I am ready to go on to something new and better.
I have worked very hard my whole life, but would like to change the focus to enjoying life with a good partner for the rest of our lives.
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| | First Date |
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Open to suggestions.
I am not counting on love at first sight. I would prefer to do something together so we get to know each other, relax, establish some trust. Maybe it will be romance, maybe friendship, maybe a conspiracy to take over the world.
I do not think I ever knew how to date. My dad wouldn't let me in high school. I just had friends, and somehow in college they started to be boyfriends. They were boys I knew, and we skipped the first date with a stranger thing.
I was happy as a married woman faithful to my husband. I ignored signals from everyone else. I wanted them to think I was a nice person, but no sexual energy for them.
How to get from there to letting somebody new into my heart? I've been eating chocolate and thinking about it. Running in and out of a coffee shop is about as useful as a drive-by shooting. |
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Llolla has 2 roses that can be sent. |
 Mail Settings (To message Llolla you MUST meet the following criteria.) |
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Male
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke
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