Hi there, I would enjoy meeting a kind hearted man who enjoys life, people, and the sees the possibliities of each new day. If you are grumpy, and/or a sour puss, and stingy with affection and opportunities to go and "see" new stuff we may not have much in common. Hopefully, you enjoy family activities but are not harnessed to family responsibilties.

A first date, in my opinion, should not necessarily be extremely elaborate. Probably a lunch date would be an excellent opportunity to meet and decide if and/or when another date would be scheduled.