Words for thought:
*Tell the truth, lies are too hard to keep track of.
*If they will cheat WITH you, they will cheat ON you.
*The definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing expecting different results.
*Better to have loved and lost, than to spend the rest of your life with a psycho.
*You find what your looking for.
*"Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Choose your words, for they become actions. Understand your actions, for they become habits. Study your habits, for they will become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny."

Hmmm, the devil seemed appropriate since I seem to get called honery alot-lol. Hey, I'm just me, love me, hate me...life goes on. I treat people with respect as long as they do the same for me. I'm very active with my kids and have them 50% of the time. I attend my kids' activities, work fulltime+, and carrying 13 hours in the fall semester, I am not bored. I will, however, make time for you and/or bring you along! I don't mind going clubbing once in a while, but a steady diet of it get's old, so if you drink more than once a week you probably are not for me(unless we're on vacation or something like that). I prefer to just spend time with someone special and enjoy each others company whatever we are doing, trying new things? Going new places? Hanging at the house? It's not the activity, it's the company! If you want to know anything else, just ask - just make sure you are ready for the answer!

I am looking for someone with some similar interests and values. Like I said, I have my kids 50% of the time and they are WITH me, not at a sitter(this also means I have 50% of my time for other things). They are great, well behaved, and respectful and if you have an issue with them being around, please throw me back and keep fishing. I will not push them aside for you or anyone else. If you plan your schedule around the TV, don't waste my time, it is fine for fillng in the down times but by no means should it be a priority.

If you are looking for someone to fight/argue with, I'm not it. I will discuss any subject under the sun(from pogo-sticks to periods) in an honest, heartfelt manner. If you like to have a fight so we can make up later-find someone else. I'd rather spend that time enjoying a romantic evening with you, then to spend it riding an emotional roller coaster.

I don't make promises I can't keep, I keep the promises I make, and I would expect no less from my S/O. I have heard enough lies to last a lifetime, thank-you very much, and I have no intention of being with someone I can't trust.

My immediate family lives here, I've been at my job for 17 years, and my house is paid for so there isn't much chance that I will move away from this area. The only move I will be making is to my place in the country. I am interested in someone I can see on a regular basis. I am not into long distance relationships, I can't fall in love with words or pictures on a screen and I will lose the romantic interest-like I said, I believe in being honest - I know myself and know how I will react in most situations. I don't have any hangup about your age[its about attraction and compatability] other than you are done playing high school games and don't own a rocking chair because you won't get a chance to use it around me. And there's something really hot about a lady that can rock a cowboy hat ;)
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And They Say We Husbands Don't Listen ---

Martin, a loving husband, was in trouble. He forgot his wedding anniversary and his wife was really ticked off at him. She told him, "tomorrow morning, I expect to find a gift in the driveway that goes from 0 to 200 in under 6 seconds, AND IT BETTER BE THERE."
The next morning, Martin got up really early before work.
When his wife woke up a couple of hours later, she looked out the window, and sure enough, there was a small gift-wrapped box sitting in the middle of the driveway. Confused, the wife put on her robe, ran out to the driveway, and took the box into the house. She opened it, and found a brand new bathroom scale.
Martin is not yet well enough to have visitors.
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(I know you laughed! Now take that smile with you everywhere you go!!)

Disclaimer:
I believe in being completely honest and upfront so here ya go.... If you lie in your profile(you know who you are) don't even bother [example-if you list you don't do drugs, don't list one of your activities as '420s'...I was born at night, but IT WASN'T LAST NIGHT]. If you blame your kids, neighbors, parents, ex's, your dog, the aliens that abducted you, or whoever...for YOUR problems, don't contact me. Good or bad, this is your life, own it... if there is something you don't like about it - CHANGE IT! Don't sit on the couch eating frosting blaming the rest of the world. I have no problem listening when you've had a bad day and need to vent, or you want input on how to handle a situation. But if your 'everyday' is a 'life crises', you might need to make some changes. I would rather spend it hunting[yes, I have guns, if that bothers you, I am NOT the man for you], fishing, camping, traveling, cruising on my bike, 4 wheelin, or whatever else I am in the mood for that day. Why waste your short time on this earth concentrating on the bad things? If your one of those women that wants to know how much money I make-don't contact me, it's none of your business unless we've decided to make a life together. If you have more than 1 pic up with you "chunking dueces" or even 1 with you flippin' the bird, I prolly won't give you a 2nd look as this falls under the "high school games" catagory---> I think Walmart sells 'original personalities' in the toddler section, go find you one.

As far as music goes; I listen to anything I like: from Ludwig Van Beethoven to Limp Bizkit-AC/DC to Alan Jackson-Mozart to Metalica...get the idea?

*Memo- This is "my place in the country", if you can't see yourself living here, then it isn't going to work out, thx.

If we make it this far, we'll figure it out.

JUST A BIKER

I saw you hug your purse closer to you in the grocery store.
But you didn't see me put an extra $10.00 in the collection plate last Sunday.
I saw you pull your child closer when we passed eachother on the sidewalk. But you didn't see me playing Santa at the local mall.
I saw you change your mind about going into the restaurant when you saw my bike out front.
But you didn't see me attending a meeting to raise money for the hurricane relief.
I saw you roll up your window and shake your head when I rode by.
But you didn't see me riding behind you when you flicked your cigarette butt out the car window.
I saw you frown at me when I smiled at your children.
But you didn't see me,when I took time off work to run toys to the homeless.
I saw you stare at my long hair.
But you didn't see me and my friends cut ten inches off for Locks of Love.
I saw you roll your eyes at our leather jackets and gloves.
But you didn't see me and my brothers donate our old ones to those who had none.
I saw you look in fright at my tattoos.
But you didn't see me cry as my children were born or have their name written over and in my heart.
I saw you change lanes while rushing off to go somewhere.
But you didn't see me going home to be with my family.
I saw you,complain about how loud and noisy our bikes can be.
But you didn't see me when you were changing the CD and drifted into my lane.
I saw you yelling at your kids in the car.But you didn't see me pat my child's hands knowing she was safe behind me.
I saw you reading the newspaper or map as you drove down the road.But you didn't see me squeeze my wife's leg when she told me to take the next turn.
I saw you race down the road in the rain.
But you didn't see me get soaked to the skin so my son could have the car to go on his date.
I saw you run the yellow light just to save a few minutes of time.
But you didn't see me trying to turn right.
I saw you cut me off because you needed to be in the lane I was in.But you didn't see me leave the road.
I saw you,waiting impatiently for my friends to pass.But you didn't see me.I wasn't there.
I saw you go home to your family.
But you didn't see me.
Because I died that day you cut me off.I was just a biker.
A person with friends and a family.But you didn't see me.