I watched a commercial the other day and decided that if I could be compared to a chocolate bar I would be an Aero bar. I'm bursting with bubbles and being with me would make you feel all bubbly inside. I'm a very happy positive person and I love to laugh and make other people laugh.
I'm young at heart and have a tendency to forget what my actual chronilogical age is. Not that I'm irresponsible because I'm not. I take my responsibilities seriously but I know that I've earned a good time and I intend to have it. You only live once. I seem to be able to have a good time no matter what I do. Whether it be at work or hanging out with friends. I love being outdoors (in nice weather) and sleeping in a tent during thunder storms. I love watching "God's Lightshow". The Northern Lights are also something that amazes me and I could watch them for hours.
I love hanging out around a campfire and having laughs with friends/family. Often the laughter is over some crazy thing that has happened to me. eg. doing the splits between the dock and the paddle boat in my pajamas (damn that water was cold!!!)
I'm very easy to get along with and I'm very easy to please. A bunch of wildflowers picked off of the side of the road mean more to me than a dozen roses.(don't get me wrong, i like boughten flowers too.)
I like playing paintball but lack the patience to hide in a blind waiting for somebody to pop their head out, so I come out blasting like Rambo and get plastered from all directions, but I have fun doing it.
I love music of all kinds but I'm still and always will be a die hard Elvis fan. NOBODY will ever replace him.
I'm very open and honest and sometimes that gets me into touchy situations. If I hear a rumour about you, I'm likey to straight out and ask if it is true rather than repeat what I've heard. I hate drama and a poor poor pituful me attitude. I don't like being around whiners or depressing people.
I like to party and have a good time but drinking isn't a necessity to my having a good time. I like dancing and shaking my booty. (pretty good at it too)
I like playing cards and most board games.(hate monopoly with a passion though)
I have a thing about collecting movies. Probably half of the movies I own I haven't watched but I like to own them. I guess other people collect spoons, I collect movies. I like action movies, suspense thrillers and horrors. A good comedy is always great too. (the first Blue Collar Comedy Tour movie just about cracked me up-got me a noise violation too) Actually I like most any movies.
I like most animals(except mice), up until a year ago I had a cat from hell. She was great. Had a huge attitude and looked down her nose and everyone and everything. I moved into a place that couldn't have pets so now she lives with my daughter. (and she will no longer acknowledge my existence) I've had dogs most of my life and you'll never find a truer friend that a dog. Their love is totally unconditional. Kind of ironic that they love you that way when you consider what dog spelt backwards is.
Initially when I first wrote this I found it difficult to describe what I want in a man. The longer I am on here and the more people I meet the easier it has become. I'm looking for a freind and a lover and a companion. I want someone kind and gentle but not a pushover. I want him to be able to laugh with me and hold me if I need to cry and tell me everything will be all right(even when we both know otherwise). He needs to be fun and willing to try new things. Spontaneous is good. Positive is a must. I want to be able to feel like I'm melting when he holds me in his arms and to know that he feels it too. I want to be physically attracted to him and vice versa. Sex is important to me so it is a must that I be sexually attracted to him, but I also need to be able to carry on a conversation with him. I want to be able to just sit on the couch and cuddle too while we watch tv or whatever. I want someone to share things with but also be content to not always be together.
I need a man that will love me and take care of me as much as I will love him and take care of him. It has to be a two way street. I love doing things for my man but I don't want it to be all give and no take.
I want to be told "I love you" and be able to tell him those words back without him feeling that it's too much. I'm a touchy feely person and I guess my man better be one too or at least be able to learn to accept it and try to reciprocate. I love touching and kissing and yes I love sex.
I have a blast hanging out with my siblings and I guess my man needs to be open to at least give them a chance. My kids and my grandkids are very important to me and that is also something that would have to be accepted.
So now after reading this if I haven't scared everybody off, look me up.
Oh yeah, I have a thing about changing my hair color too. That way it's like having a different woman in your bed every few months.

Well now with all the demands that I put in here maybe nobody will want to date me!!!! If you do, I would like to meet for coffee or a drink or whatever in some quiet public place where we can chat and get to know each other. If I feel comfortable and safe with you, I'd like to take you back to my house to talk cause I find it so much easier to visit that way and when you come into my home you get a real feel of who I am.
Don't expect sex the first time we meet cause I've discovered the hard way that it just seems to give you guys the wrong idea. I guess because I am so open and honest if I feel a strong attraction I don't fight it but that apparently isn't the way to find a lasting relationship. So.......I'm mending my ways.